02-02-2019, 07:35 PM
(This post was last modified: 02-02-2019, 08:04 PM by AbundanceCH.)
(01-30-2019, 07:58 AM)Greenduck Wrote: [quote='Raykon' pid='215182' dateline='1548813002']I watched a video by Alpha Male Strategies a few weeks ago that touched on this I was trying to find it. Basically it talks about this same thing.
I saw a talk with Jordan Peterson that women often value the potential they see in a man, more than his current assets. But this is only one part of the reason behind that she stay with you. The other part is your emotional bond, what you enjoy in each-other.
A lot of women see their man as a project specially women that make more money than their man.
Do I think your woman is a unicorn? I think she just sees your potential and you're also probably doing something good in the bed department. If she didn't have either of those two from you then she would drop you in a second. She might still drop you in a second the moment she comes across a guy interested in her that has more money than you/higher status/better looking.
Your girl also probably has low self steam or low confidence she can find someone better at the moment. She's comfortable where she's at UNTIL YOU FK UP!
You have to understand that's the nature of women (hypergamy). She is looking out for herself and offspring by finding a guy that will be able to take care of her and offspring simple as that. She still believes you are that man but wait to see what happens when she no longer believes that! You won't be saying she's a unicorn anymore
I was in this situation myself. When i was having money problems I had a woman who made 6 times as much as me. She was very attractive but low in confidence.
She knew of my potential she knew all the stuff i was working on and also the self improvement stuff I was doing plus I made sure I fkd her hard and often (which is a must if you want to keep your girl in this situation and any girl). If she saw no potential in me to be better and i didn't fk her well she would have dumped me for sure.
Keep working to improve your situation and please don't think your woman is a unicorn. That same unicorn the moment she loses hope in your potential or meets a better guy than you she might drop you. Yes she's better than most but don't treat her like a unicorn.
