01-30-2019, 07:58 AM
(01-29-2019, 05:50 PM)Raykon Wrote: I have nothing externally, no more muscles, no more car (lost license), no money & almost no clothes ( not much variation in clothing). My gf has stuck with me despite me having NOTHING externally, I been broke for awhile.
All I have is a apartment.
Is it rare to find a women who will stick by you despite you not having anything material.
I have been rock bottom ever since losing my license, & I have been out of work for a bit, although i'm going back this week.
Is she a keeper? Is it rare to find someone like her, I had a car, 25 more lbs of muscle on me (im not big anymore) and nice clothes and allot more when we first started dating but I lost it all and she hasn't left me.
Is that rare to find in a women nowadays, someone who will love you despite the things that you have materially.
I am asking this to Shannon but I am curious what everyone else thinks as well.
We have been living apart for the last week n half, we are set to move in together on the 9th.
It depends on why she have stayed with you. She may like you, value your relationship and believe in that you will get yourself on your feet. She may have low self confidence and stay with you as a "safe alternative". It all depends on your relationship. And the only way to know for sure, it to talk about it.
The way you are phrasing your question about how hard it is to find someone who will be with your regardless of your financial situation tell me that you are not really having a strong relationship with her, or that you are unaware of it, otherwise you would make your decision based on your relationship, what you feel for her, rather than how "rare" she is. Do you want to be with her? Why? These are questions you need to answer for yourself. Is she a support for you? Do you value her?
I saw a talk with Jordan Peterson that women often value the potential they see in a man, more than his current assets. But this is only one part of the reason behind that she stay with you. The other part is your emotional bond, what you enjoy in each-other.
