01-30-2019, 07:04 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-30-2019, 08:50 AM by Raikahoken.)
DMSI 3.3.1D Day 1
It was a challenge getting 8 loops in but I managed. Working at home sure helps.
At night I went on a date, I was looking forward to it because the girl in the picture was really cute. She arrived 30 minutes late and looked nothing like her picture. She had already seen me otherwise I would have bailed before she saw me. I didn't want to be a dick so I just went along, she said she'd buy drinks since she's late so I just saw it as free drinks. I found it hard to be interested in what she said at all, I quickly steered the conversation away from personal stuff and I got her to tell me her work stuff that might be useful to me. Ended it after almost an hour.
Day 2
Met a 21-year-old girl from Tinder. Invited her to my area. I was also looking forward to this one because she's mixed blood and looked delicious. In person she looked every bit as delicious as her pictures. She had to go somewhere else though so I only had 2 hours with her. Not much time at all. I had planned to get coffee in the mall first but I just brought her straight to my house.
Made her coffee and we talked. She sounded very open minded when chatting and turned out she was a recovering drug addict and at one point she tried doing escort. Hoo boy. I was operating on limited time so I just skipped the get-to-know-you and steered the conversation towards sex. I was getting my hopes up (sexy girl who's terrific in bed?) but she showed signs of being difficult (she wants a relationship now, she likes to make the guys she dates wait for sex, she doesn't sleep on first date etc). Hmmmm... After the 1 hour mark I just escalated. It all proceeded smoothly, she even gave me a heavenly blowjob. Also, I've had titjobs before but she was the first who used spit to lube her boobs. It's such an obvious thing to do now that I think about it. I never enjoyed titjobs until today. All went well until I asked her to sit on me. She firmly refused to have sex today. No amount of cajoling could sway her. I lost my temper and called her lame. She got offended and left.
I thought about this and this is the conclusion I came to:
- It's not wrong to be entitled. Taking Todd's concept of borrowing abundance from the future, the kind of guy I am going to become doesn't wait more than one date for sex with a girl.
- However we have to keep in mind how much time has passed between meeting and escalation. The chick needs some time to know how awesome we are. In this case, it was only straight to my house, I was wearing shorts, 1 hour conversation before escalation. She hasn't asked me yet about what I do and I haven't told her any stories about me yet, we've just been talking about dating and sex. She doesn't know who I am yet and we haven't had a venue change.
- We don't wait long for sex but there has to be a reasonable time limit before we go "put out or get out". For me it has to be at least 2 hours of conversation outside with me in jeans, with at least one venue change (bar to hotel etc), and after I share some stories about myself and what I do.
- These days with DMSI I have very little patience with girls. The correct course of action today was to give her a pass because it was too rushed, settle for the BJ and go for it another day. Even getting the BJ is already very good after just an hour. I seem to have forgotten that we can close on day 2 too, it doesn't always have to be on the same day, especially if it's too rushed. It was a costly lesson, I lost a potential hot FWB.
Day 3
Asked the China girl who I saw on DMSI 3.3D Day 19 to come over. Last time I was too tired and came in under a minute. I felt sorry for her and was determined to make it up for her. Today I drilled her so hard and so long, she was literally crying in pleasure. Afterwards she said I should be a porn star. I felt pretty satisfied from the sex.
I'll be happy to keep her as a FWB. She's a hard worker in bed and her periods are 2 weeks off the period of most girls in my city, which makes her an ideal foreign FWB.
It was a challenge getting 8 loops in but I managed. Working at home sure helps.
At night I went on a date, I was looking forward to it because the girl in the picture was really cute. She arrived 30 minutes late and looked nothing like her picture. She had already seen me otherwise I would have bailed before she saw me. I didn't want to be a dick so I just went along, she said she'd buy drinks since she's late so I just saw it as free drinks. I found it hard to be interested in what she said at all, I quickly steered the conversation away from personal stuff and I got her to tell me her work stuff that might be useful to me. Ended it after almost an hour.
Day 2
Met a 21-year-old girl from Tinder. Invited her to my area. I was also looking forward to this one because she's mixed blood and looked delicious. In person she looked every bit as delicious as her pictures. She had to go somewhere else though so I only had 2 hours with her. Not much time at all. I had planned to get coffee in the mall first but I just brought her straight to my house.
Made her coffee and we talked. She sounded very open minded when chatting and turned out she was a recovering drug addict and at one point she tried doing escort. Hoo boy. I was operating on limited time so I just skipped the get-to-know-you and steered the conversation towards sex. I was getting my hopes up (sexy girl who's terrific in bed?) but she showed signs of being difficult (she wants a relationship now, she likes to make the guys she dates wait for sex, she doesn't sleep on first date etc). Hmmmm... After the 1 hour mark I just escalated. It all proceeded smoothly, she even gave me a heavenly blowjob. Also, I've had titjobs before but she was the first who used spit to lube her boobs. It's such an obvious thing to do now that I think about it. I never enjoyed titjobs until today. All went well until I asked her to sit on me. She firmly refused to have sex today. No amount of cajoling could sway her. I lost my temper and called her lame. She got offended and left.
I thought about this and this is the conclusion I came to:
- It's not wrong to be entitled. Taking Todd's concept of borrowing abundance from the future, the kind of guy I am going to become doesn't wait more than one date for sex with a girl.
- However we have to keep in mind how much time has passed between meeting and escalation. The chick needs some time to know how awesome we are. In this case, it was only straight to my house, I was wearing shorts, 1 hour conversation before escalation. She hasn't asked me yet about what I do and I haven't told her any stories about me yet, we've just been talking about dating and sex. She doesn't know who I am yet and we haven't had a venue change.
- We don't wait long for sex but there has to be a reasonable time limit before we go "put out or get out". For me it has to be at least 2 hours of conversation outside with me in jeans, with at least one venue change (bar to hotel etc), and after I share some stories about myself and what I do.
- These days with DMSI I have very little patience with girls. The correct course of action today was to give her a pass because it was too rushed, settle for the BJ and go for it another day. Even getting the BJ is already very good after just an hour. I seem to have forgotten that we can close on day 2 too, it doesn't always have to be on the same day, especially if it's too rushed. It was a costly lesson, I lost a potential hot FWB.
Day 3
Asked the China girl who I saw on DMSI 3.3D Day 19 to come over. Last time I was too tired and came in under a minute. I felt sorry for her and was determined to make it up for her. Today I drilled her so hard and so long, she was literally crying in pleasure. Afterwards she said I should be a porn star. I felt pretty satisfied from the sex.
I'll be happy to keep her as a FWB. She's a hard worker in bed and her periods are 2 weeks off the period of most girls in my city, which makes her an ideal foreign FWB.
