01-28-2019, 11:38 AM
(01-28-2019, 09:06 AM)lano1106 Wrote: Well, because running AM6 is a 6 months investment. There are so much programs on my todo stack that rerunning AM6 doesn't feel like the best move right now... In order to optimize my time usage, I'll probably wait for AM7 release to revisit the program.
I have BASE on it, and I want really want get done with my desire to have a satisfying sexual life. Probably my #1 priority right now since I want to enjoy life as much as possible while I can.
Concerning your comment... idk... Thinking like that, imho, is how nice guys see the reality and why they don't get laid... Women are in relation with providers and have their sexual needs fulfilled by alphas... There is nothing good or bad. It is just how things are... If she is not having sex with me, she is going to have it with someone else... I won't change her reality because I want to demonstrate some sort of white knight with a shinning armor morality. All it will do is make her conclude that I'm not the alpha that she is looking for.
Plus we don't know their reality. Maybe they are in an open relation.. Honest communication allows to find that out... Expressing my desires doesn't automatically force us to act on it. BUT it allows eliminate EVERY assumptions made about her situation and ALLOWS good things to happen if she is in a situation where this is ok for her. Nice guys mistake (and mine as well) is to not express desires based on assumptions made in your mind (and this is in the same category than. She is too young. She must have a bf. I don't have time to go talk with her and so on...)
Also, in AM6 recommended book, it is written that girls they will go for casual sex if there is no consequences for them. It kinda makes sense to me as it is pretty much the same for me.
All I know is that I have censored my desires for fear of being judged for what I am feeling. I feel that behaving like that is a problem because the fear is unjustified. I want to experiment with using 100% honesty communication. My expectations is that only good things will come out of it. If I am wrong, I'll adapt my behavior according to the received feedback.
I feel like you see women like used to see them. Some noble princesses coming straight out from Disney novel. This is not reality. I'm willing to experiment a different version to see how it feels.
Ok, i sensed that it gave you something that you could build on, but you know best what you need.
I feel that is a little bit simple way of looking at things. To value morality, and not involving yourself in making someone else breaking their promises, that isn't a "nice guy syndrome", it's just a thought through way of how you make your choices. To exclude girls in relationships from your possible mates don't have to make you to a "nice guy". To answer your assumption, I am not really putting girls on piedestals, I have learned that lesson long time ago.
I am all for expressing your sexual desires, but not in pursuing the interest for someone who is in a relationship. You are just creating more chaos from doing that, even if it doesn't directly affect you - not responsible behavior - not Alpha. As the book you refer to, a girl may sleep with you while being in a relationship "without consequences" - but in reality she is undermining her self-esteem, and you are being part of doing so. That's reality.
