01-25-2019, 01:33 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-25-2019, 09:56 AM by Williamx25.)
(01-24-2019, 07:08 PM)Shannon Wrote: When you feel like this, the first priority is to take care of yourself. Seek someone, or someones, who can provide you with help. Self destruction is not the answer that will solve the issue. Trust me. I have been in your shoes with this. More than once. I still live in part because I realized that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and because of that, I sought help to weather the storm.
Find someone to spend time with, talk to, help keep you safe through this.
And as for going bald at 14, guess what? That sucks, but it's what you have. Stop framing baldness as a detraction. Make it a feature. Baldness and confidence together are one of the biggest displays of sexiness you can make. Look at Patrick Stewart. There are actually lots of famous guys who went bald and only got sexier by shaving their heads. Bruce Willis, and others as well.
And I speak from experience with this as well. I didn't start going bald at 14, but at 21 I got Testicular cancer, and the chemo drugs started my balding. They destroyed my lungs, too. Prevented me from joining the military, or being a police officer, or a firefighter, or doing anything I was planning to do.
I'm bald. And in the beginning, I was afraid to be seen bald. But you know what? People got used to it when I started shaving my head. Now that they're used to it, they like it. And my confidence and baldness actually makes me more attractive. I have had teenage girls come on to me since I went bald. Never had that when I had hair!
Being bald isn't less attractive. Trying to comb it over, trying to hide it, trying to pretend it's not happening... those aren't the way to maximize your attractiveness. If you haven't yet, shave it all off. Then own it. It's sexy. And you are on the way to becoming irresistibly sexually attractive.
By the way, getting upset over the cards you've been dealt, not going to help. Find ways to make them useful. Strengths. Positives. There's always a way. You can do this.
Stay with us, William. There's a lot of good to experience in life yet.
Thank you for your reply @Shannon
It’s 10:15 AM and everything’s back to normal. I’ve read your message and you are right. It doesn’t help me at all, mourning about my hair loss and percieved decreased attractiveness doesn’t help me with the program either. I have so much sadness and anger deep inside me. And I always tried to cope with it. Once in a while it comes out. And I seriously think why am I doing all this stuff? I was about to give up.
I’m sorry to hear about your past and disease. It’s unfair and tragic. I don’t know why things are happening to us.
I don’t know what this was, I suddenly felt intense sadness and I started to browse hairloss forums which wasn’t a smart move. That got me even deeper in a negative depressive spiral downwards. All the things we have to do, being in top shape, earning high income, being handsome, having a big cock, dancing like a monkey, dancing to the tunes of a woman, I feel like an caged animal. All the things men have to do just to please a woman, just to build attraction, and to get in her pants. Listening to this program etc, sometimes I just wish that I could turn this shit off.
Why do I need this validation from women? Why do I need human interaction and why do I need companionship? Why do I want to be desired alot by women? Also when women look at me, I feel very uncomfortable.
I wish I could delete all that shit. Maybe just focus on being valuable / adding value to our society. Like Elon Musk, I admire him. He’s doing very important stuff and he forgot women to do his mission her on earth. Lol I feel like a worthless bum eventhough i’m still a student but in huge debts.