01-22-2019, 09:56 AM
Day 16
Failed date today. Met this 19-year-old Indonesian chick from Tinder who's on holiday. She's cute but when I saw her I just felt that I would have a hard time with her. I was right. She's reacting emotionally to me and such but she's not forthcoming about her past relationships and sexual experiences at all. At this point I realized that my game relies heavily on this and when she doesn't spill my verbal escalation doesn't work. Pulling information and stories out of her was an annoying experience. She told me a few stories but grudgingly, like she did something wrong, which told me she still has traditional ideas in her head. I tried to go another route and went to physical escalation, she was receptive but I didn't feel very natural touching her when she was being annoying. This went back and forth for three hours until I decided to make it a moment of truth. I don't want to miss my last bus home so I went for the kiss. If she did it, I'd pull to hotel and take taxi home. But she gave the cheek. I just ended it there. Stopped speaking to her after that. I needed to call an Uber for her because she had no phone. While waiting she looked apologetic and uncomfortable. Before leaving she unexpectedly kissed me. I shook my head and caught my last bus.
I've become adept at pulling off the first date lay that this was an annoying exception. Maybe I could have gotten laid if I stayed longer, bought her more drinks and made her more drunk etc, but these days I only want straightforward lays where the girl is not resisting all the way but actively going along with it. Wrong girl today I guess. There are some useful lessons that I learned about my verbal game that I'm sure will help me soon.
Failed date today. Met this 19-year-old Indonesian chick from Tinder who's on holiday. She's cute but when I saw her I just felt that I would have a hard time with her. I was right. She's reacting emotionally to me and such but she's not forthcoming about her past relationships and sexual experiences at all. At this point I realized that my game relies heavily on this and when she doesn't spill my verbal escalation doesn't work. Pulling information and stories out of her was an annoying experience. She told me a few stories but grudgingly, like she did something wrong, which told me she still has traditional ideas in her head. I tried to go another route and went to physical escalation, she was receptive but I didn't feel very natural touching her when she was being annoying. This went back and forth for three hours until I decided to make it a moment of truth. I don't want to miss my last bus home so I went for the kiss. If she did it, I'd pull to hotel and take taxi home. But she gave the cheek. I just ended it there. Stopped speaking to her after that. I needed to call an Uber for her because she had no phone. While waiting she looked apologetic and uncomfortable. Before leaving she unexpectedly kissed me. I shook my head and caught my last bus.
I've become adept at pulling off the first date lay that this was an annoying exception. Maybe I could have gotten laid if I stayed longer, bought her more drinks and made her more drunk etc, but these days I only want straightforward lays where the girl is not resisting all the way but actively going along with it. Wrong girl today I guess. There are some useful lessons that I learned about my verbal game that I'm sure will help me soon.
