I was wrong when I said stage 6 wouldn't bring much since it is ONLY varnish and polishing...
Quite the contrary. I had 2 solid arguments with my main gf. She was upset about something that I did and she wanted me to apologize. I didn't want to because I was disagreeing that I did anything wrong.
I ended the argument by asking her to explain how what I did was wrong. She couldn't and this ended the whole thing. Something happened again and similar outcome did happen again.
Maybe some realization that this made me make is that there is no right or wrong opinion. They are only different interpretations. The way to win an argument is to make your interpreation accepted by the other.
In fact, I'll go further. I got these lengthy arguments with my biz partner on topics where we had diverging opinions. I found out that no matter how good the arguments to support each opinions were, it wasn't changing at all our respective position.
So the point isn't to win an argument (because anyway the loser will feel resentment) but to focus on solution to make everyone happy.
I did continue reading Mode One book. While I was reading it, I got a flashback. Some time ago, I met a swinger guy who was telling me that he must be having sex with, at least, a new woman every day or something outrageous like that. So, I was wondering and I did ask him, so how do you do to have a new woman accept so quick EVERY day? And he simply replied: You just ask them.. and this has puzzled me. It was such a foreign concept to me at that point with this limiting belief that you have to behave appropriatly when meeting a new person.
Definitely, in 2019, I want to become more transparent and honest in my communication. I wonder how easy or how hard it will be to achieve. There is the moment where you take the decision and the moment of execution where at first you have to undo years of habit...
I also love the concept of Wholesome Pretenders (WP). Women how are deep inside very sexual persons but wears a 'good girl' social mask to be perceived as marriage material. The chapter describing what happens when you directly express your desire and they will at first feign to be offended in an attempt to make you apologize but if you remain firm with what you just said, they will rapidly show you their true nature.
The whole concept is extremely arousing to me. That sounds like some cheesy porn video scenario... While I will be running SM3, I think that I am going to be on a mission to demask as many WP women as possible...
Quite the contrary. I had 2 solid arguments with my main gf. She was upset about something that I did and she wanted me to apologize. I didn't want to because I was disagreeing that I did anything wrong.
I ended the argument by asking her to explain how what I did was wrong. She couldn't and this ended the whole thing. Something happened again and similar outcome did happen again.
Maybe some realization that this made me make is that there is no right or wrong opinion. They are only different interpretations. The way to win an argument is to make your interpreation accepted by the other.
In fact, I'll go further. I got these lengthy arguments with my biz partner on topics where we had diverging opinions. I found out that no matter how good the arguments to support each opinions were, it wasn't changing at all our respective position.
So the point isn't to win an argument (because anyway the loser will feel resentment) but to focus on solution to make everyone happy.
I did continue reading Mode One book. While I was reading it, I got a flashback. Some time ago, I met a swinger guy who was telling me that he must be having sex with, at least, a new woman every day or something outrageous like that. So, I was wondering and I did ask him, so how do you do to have a new woman accept so quick EVERY day? And he simply replied: You just ask them.. and this has puzzled me. It was such a foreign concept to me at that point with this limiting belief that you have to behave appropriatly when meeting a new person.
Definitely, in 2019, I want to become more transparent and honest in my communication. I wonder how easy or how hard it will be to achieve. There is the moment where you take the decision and the moment of execution where at first you have to undo years of habit...
I also love the concept of Wholesome Pretenders (WP). Women how are deep inside very sexual persons but wears a 'good girl' social mask to be perceived as marriage material. The chapter describing what happens when you directly express your desire and they will at first feign to be offended in an attempt to make you apologize but if you remain firm with what you just said, they will rapidly show you their true nature.
The whole concept is extremely arousing to me. That sounds like some cheesy porn video scenario... While I will be running SM3, I think that I am going to be on a mission to demask as many WP women as possible...
