Quote:It could be something else is bothering him. It doesn't necessarily have to have anything to do with you.
Maybe see if you can wrangle that out of him. Don't take what's happening personally, and gently probe him to see what's bothering him.
This was what I thought until the pattern of behavior became clear. It happens some of the time for reasons I don't know of, but it definitely happens after a "better session".
(12-15-2018, 06:34 PM)Shannon Wrote: It may also have to do with the sex triggering a release of a lot of testosterone, although I'm guessing, since I don't know if sex triggers that. But those symptoms sound like high test or high andrestenone. Does he shower frequently?
He showers at least twice a day... More if he does some kind of "sweaty" activity, like sex? He showers more than me, but I am not much of a "sweaty" person.
I noticed that only after sessions that are "better", that he behaves this way. He gets easily irritated. It feels like he's in a trance, an "easily irritated" trance.
Quote:It’s pretty rare for us to be in a worse mood after sex. His behavior may be a reaction to the changes you are undergoing with USLM. My wife is doing that, the way she is dealing with me has kind of destabilized, and she doesn’t seem to quite know how to deal with me now. I used to be a lot less assertive in the context of the relationship than I am now. Also I think she’s afraid that I’m going to be “better than her”. You may be getting something similar.
I do not think it's related to USLM. His pattern of behavior happened before USLM.
I'm not sure if he's in a worse mood. If I look back on it, it might be that his mood is better, but he's more sensitive to the little things that would change that mood, so he gets irritated at the smallest things? Maybe... mood swings? (I'm shocked as I write that. Mood swings always go with menstrual periods)
