12-15-2018, 10:45 PM
(12-15-2018, 04:35 PM)Quote Wrote: The husband is argumentative today. Give me a clue guys, I am noticing a pattern in his behavior.
After he has a good session (making love) with me, he behaves out of character. He becomes less patient, and more aggressive. It's as if he had an ego boost and feels angry a lot of the time.
For example:
It's the holiday season and there are discounts offered left right center, so I ask him, do you have anything you want to buy?
I meant that as "if there's anything else, now is a good time with the discounts", but he interprets it as "must you fill up the basket just so you can use the coupons?" and (kinda) stomps off.
Normally, he'll just say "No." and we'll leave it as that. Or he'll open up the computer to take a look. What happened to that appreciation for me?
This is not desirable behaviour from him of course... I am at the receiving end of his aggressiveness and impatience, when he is usually nice and kind and patient. This upsets the harmony of the day.
Why do I have to suffer his behaviour after a good session? He makes me not want to do it as often.
It’s pretty rare for us to be in a worse mood after sex. His behavior may be a reaction to the changes you are undergoing with USLM. My wife is doing that, the way she is dealing with me has kind of destabilized, and she doesn’t seem to quite know how to deal with me now. I used to be a lot less assertive in the context of the relationship than I am now. Also I think she’s afraid that I’m going to be “better than her”. You may be getting something similar.
