I'm reading the book "the superior man" by David Deida. It's a hard read, really. No bs, and if you read it honestly, you get some pretty hard realizations. A quote that i really liked in the end of the book, that spoke to me on a deep level was:
Quote:You are entirely responsible for cutting through your own laziness, addictions, and unclarity. There is nothing to wait for and nobody to blame. Whatever techniques are appropriate, use them. Try talking with your friends, using therapy, practicing meditation or prayer, going on a vision quest, reading scripture, walking in nature, keeping a journal, or studying with a teacher. Remember that your success with any method you choose de- pends entirely on your actual commitment to discovering your deepest truth and aligning your life with it.
You could meditate until you're blue in the face, but it won't work, if, when it conies down to it, you'd rather masturbate, read the newspaper, or watch TV than cut through your addictions, discipline your daily life, and give your gift from your deepest, most blissful source. The quality of your intent and the consis- tency and depth of your application determine the results of your direction in gifting—as well as your capacity to guide your woman's life into greater happiness and bodily surrender into love.
