Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Shannon]

Well, since it is a beta test, it would make a lot of sense in my mind. If the goal is to make you so attractive to THEM that they will approach you, but the sub isn't 100 % there yet, you could still get with higher quality girls than you usually would by approaching them, since the sub might increase your "attractiveness" or whatever you want to call it in their eyes, but not enough to make them make the move on you every time.

If the goal is for them to approach you, you don't disincentivize that by doing it for them.

That has been the goal of this program since v1.0.

And that is why when it did influence you to make an effort, it was to meet them half way, not do it for them.

Thank you for your answer. This makes sense to me.

I thought that the program had 2 overall goals:

1) To make you more attractive in the eyes of the girl/girls you like
2) Make the girls you like do the approach.

So if I don't really care about 2) and I actually prefer to do the approach myself, should I stay away from this program, or will 1) still work for me?

Nothing is stopping you from doing the approach. It's just disincentivising the women you approach from doing what the program is trying to do for you. If you are approaching all the women you are attracted to, it is likely that you will screw up whatever the program is trying to do unless you are really good at approaching them. If you are, then DMSI is likely to make you absolutely incredible at that. All of the program will still work to whatever degree you execute, and do not screw up what it is trying to accomplish with PUA techniques you haven't mastered yet.