10-16-2018, 09:43 AM
(10-15-2018, 04:40 PM)Shannon Wrote:Quote:2. Resistance against ultrasonic/hybrid was probably because the us part is louder and that's not only perceived as being told what to do but it is also perceived as a threat which brings everything to shutdown.
Threat to what?
Loud persons were often being perceived as aggressive/violent in my childhood and sometimes still are. So I think the sub might be also perceived as aggressive.
Quote:You haven't lost the fear yet. This invalidates your argument in toto. This is evident by the fact that your argument here is itself based in fear. I see this based at the very least in your assertion that it is important to be flawless, which is perfectionism, which is based in fear that one is not good enough. Without fear you would have done what you started out to do.
Just as a leaf does not exist without the twig that it grows from, which does not exist without the branch that it grows from, which does not exist without the larger branch that it grows from, which does not exist without the trunk from which it grows, which does not exist without the roots from which it grows - a fear pased pattern will not exist without the fear that drives it.
FRM, when executed, will erase all of this. Patterns and habits and all.
Neuronal pathways which were created over years and often used won't disappear overnight. That's why the old habits and thinking patterns will still be preferred at the begin. But without fear new experiences will be made and therefore new pathways will be created much easier than before and the old ones will regress. If you cut off a plant from its root it won't immediately disappear, but will become withered everyday more and more.
Quote:This is simply an attempt to deny the possibility of what is in the script, and thus shut down the need to execute it. "That's just not possible." Well it is possible, and I know for a fact that it is possible. But even this will be erased when the FRM is fully executed.
I don't see it as a fear based attempt but just a conclusion from the users point of view based on his own experienced reality, where the new reality will be seen as not possible and therefore the script is not been taken seriously. I have a very good example of someone in my family who will refuse everything until he will see and experience it by himself.
I know you believe everything is fear based and I am not trying to invalidate the fear theory at whole because fear is a big problem. I know it, because I have a lot of fear - at least when it comes to dealing with people and women. But I think there are some things which aren't directly affected through fear and some maybe not at all. And sometimes decisions can be made which have the same outcome as a fear based reaction, because there might be a good reason to do so.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.