Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[ncbeareatingman]

Shannon, I ask the following because it's one of my own issues and it seems to be one that many in this forum suffer from which is a major contributing factor to their lack of success in life or with women.

When it comes to a controlling/overprotective mother who uses guilt to control you...what's the best way to deal with them?

We can't just let go of our own mothers like we can do with toxic friends and people. So the only other choice is to just change ourselves so they finally end up respecting us based on the new vibration we put out. We change and the world around us changes mentality.

But what if we haven't been able to achieve the success or whatever necessary for them to change their attitude towards us? I remember reading your story which you mentioned how your family didn't respect you until you finally achieved success.

It just seems like a cruel test life has placed on a lot of us in order to force us to change. I wish I could just be myself and be accepted and respected..

Going through very similar shit right now Man,I swear, very soon,after many years of dealing with toxic family members,I am finally divorcing almost every one of MY Family members,except my mother and an older cousin,whose like a sister to Me. Defintley dealing with MY Mother and the issues there of,exactly as you described too,
I have a large family and extended family,Im done with thier asses.dealing with a lotta shit on a lot of levels with a lot of souls,plus all the stuff that USLM2 is bringing up,dealing with and processing for Me..
I honor your courage for bringing this all to the forum and being willing and open enough to share it with us here. appreciate cha,Man! excellent questions. thejourney continues. Keith