10-12-2018, 09:26 AM
I disagree with this mindset. I forget who it was on the forum here, I think it was matt22, anyhow he said we don't have the luxury of being choosy before we have abundance of hot women (words to that effect). I completely agree.
Also, if I followed that philosophy in sales I wouldn't be any good at it.
FIRST you have to get abundance, by letting everyone you can in (within reason obviously, I don't wanna hear about psychotic killer women, I'm obviously not talking about those) THEN you can search for what you want.
Also, it's like food (I think matt said this too) you don't know till you try it. You have to be willing to open yourself to new experiences to learn your tastes. Also, having experiences with more women than most guys will make you stand out from the rest.
If you want to be average, stick with the "there's a girl out there for me" philosophy. But if you want more for yourself, you gotta expand your horizons.
Also, if I followed that philosophy in sales I wouldn't be any good at it.
FIRST you have to get abundance, by letting everyone you can in (within reason obviously, I don't wanna hear about psychotic killer women, I'm obviously not talking about those) THEN you can search for what you want.
Also, it's like food (I think matt said this too) you don't know till you try it. You have to be willing to open yourself to new experiences to learn your tastes. Also, having experiences with more women than most guys will make you stand out from the rest.
If you want to be average, stick with the "there's a girl out there for me" philosophy. But if you want more for yourself, you gotta expand your horizons.
