10-11-2018, 07:28 PM
Hi, have a couple of things to say could mention it in my journal page but will post here with the new fear removal module in 3.3 when released.
I have been off dmsi for about 2 months now since shannon suggested to stop and have a break and wait for 3.3.
Previously 3.2 didnt seem to do too much for me nothing that could be noticed and i think fear is what is stopping me from executing, even though we dont believe we are stopping it somehow our subconscious must be doing something to not allow the script to execute.
Last weekend i went out for the first time in a while for a presentation dinner with the gym competition i did and then after went for drinks, i will admit i used 3 sprays of a pheromone product while out, i went to several bars with a friend from gym, first bar was a bit quiet had a drink went to another one next door the back room was free can understand why the music on stage was crap but women loved it and were all excited about it so we still danced as much as a couple of bad dancing guys can you know side to side movements, but i had atleast 4 different women chose to move and dance directly infront of me meaning i reach other could of had hands on their hips, if it was a crowded spot then i would know its just by accident but at this time there was plenty of room to move left right and forwards for these women which they did after 5-10 or more minutes of me not doing anything.
My head gets in the way and since im not confident with women and dont know signals and what to do i didnt do anything just kept enjoying myself and they eventually moved on, hopefully the fear module will remove the fear that held me back from acting on those signals in future. I knew it was likely they were showing interest even though they never faced me.
At another club this bar is quite small and narrow and got good dj music so always packed, this is where my head still can say the signals women were sending was just coincidence they needed to be so close to me since a busy bar, in this bar 10-15 different women and sometimes 2-4 were surrounding me at once even when i backed right into the corner of the dj part so i couldnt move anywhere still ended up with women not touching me but also not giving me any room to move either, still none faced me at this bar so i can read into it more than it was, some even thrrew their hair back to hit me with it too.
For me all those things happened is not a normal occurance maybe when out 1-2 might show slight interest maybe but nothing like this last weekend. Now i need to hope dmsi 3.3 will help with removing fears to actually act on these signals as i knew they were sending signals but i convinced myself just was coincidence instead.
Today i managed to approach and speak to a lady at the gym wanted to talk to for 8 months, it was all on health products after seeing a post by her last night, but thats something i rarely would do as i dont want to interupt their workouts, but my conversation skills wernt very good and felt bad if asked about other things she mentioned briefly in talking as i dont want to pry especially in a first chat.
My hope with dmsi is it improves my confidence to feel more confident in approaching women acting on signals they send and just be more assertive in many ways, also removing fear that is holding me back from acting on all these different situations.
I have been off dmsi for about 2 months now since shannon suggested to stop and have a break and wait for 3.3.
Previously 3.2 didnt seem to do too much for me nothing that could be noticed and i think fear is what is stopping me from executing, even though we dont believe we are stopping it somehow our subconscious must be doing something to not allow the script to execute.
Last weekend i went out for the first time in a while for a presentation dinner with the gym competition i did and then after went for drinks, i will admit i used 3 sprays of a pheromone product while out, i went to several bars with a friend from gym, first bar was a bit quiet had a drink went to another one next door the back room was free can understand why the music on stage was crap but women loved it and were all excited about it so we still danced as much as a couple of bad dancing guys can you know side to side movements, but i had atleast 4 different women chose to move and dance directly infront of me meaning i reach other could of had hands on their hips, if it was a crowded spot then i would know its just by accident but at this time there was plenty of room to move left right and forwards for these women which they did after 5-10 or more minutes of me not doing anything.
My head gets in the way and since im not confident with women and dont know signals and what to do i didnt do anything just kept enjoying myself and they eventually moved on, hopefully the fear module will remove the fear that held me back from acting on those signals in future. I knew it was likely they were showing interest even though they never faced me.
At another club this bar is quite small and narrow and got good dj music so always packed, this is where my head still can say the signals women were sending was just coincidence they needed to be so close to me since a busy bar, in this bar 10-15 different women and sometimes 2-4 were surrounding me at once even when i backed right into the corner of the dj part so i couldnt move anywhere still ended up with women not touching me but also not giving me any room to move either, still none faced me at this bar so i can read into it more than it was, some even thrrew their hair back to hit me with it too.
For me all those things happened is not a normal occurance maybe when out 1-2 might show slight interest maybe but nothing like this last weekend. Now i need to hope dmsi 3.3 will help with removing fears to actually act on these signals as i knew they were sending signals but i convinced myself just was coincidence instead.
Today i managed to approach and speak to a lady at the gym wanted to talk to for 8 months, it was all on health products after seeing a post by her last night, but thats something i rarely would do as i dont want to interupt their workouts, but my conversation skills wernt very good and felt bad if asked about other things she mentioned briefly in talking as i dont want to pry especially in a first chat.
My hope with dmsi is it improves my confidence to feel more confident in approaching women acting on signals they send and just be more assertive in many ways, also removing fear that is holding me back from acting on all these different situations.
