10-02-2018, 08:56 AM
You seem to have a keen sense of understanding people. As if you have a background in psychology. This gives you the advantage to be manipulative, if you wanted to be. You seem to be a kind person, so kind that you're afraid that you will become an abuser if you allow yourself the freedom to say "no" and stop putting other people before you. I think that you're too "educated" in your understanding of people to go from one extreme to the other.
You have to live your life and enjoy it. It's great to be liked and be charismatic, but it's more important to be respected. You can be liked and be respected, but you need to respect yourself enough first for others to respect you. Not everybody is going to like you, that's just part of life. When you are liked because you are sacrificing who you are to please others, you will find that when you stop "helping" them, that some of these people didn't even like you anyway. They were just using you. They will ditch you and find someone else to use. I'd say good ridance!
You seem like a great person. You will never be a sociopath or a narcissit.
You have to live your life and enjoy it. It's great to be liked and be charismatic, but it's more important to be respected. You can be liked and be respected, but you need to respect yourself enough first for others to respect you. Not everybody is going to like you, that's just part of life. When you are liked because you are sacrificing who you are to please others, you will find that when you stop "helping" them, that some of these people didn't even like you anyway. They were just using you. They will ditch you and find someone else to use. I'd say good ridance!
You seem like a great person. You will never be a sociopath or a narcissit.
