09-30-2018, 04:36 AM
(This post was last modified: 09-30-2018, 04:38 AM by SargeMaximus.)
(09-30-2018, 12:17 AM)Kol Wrote: Yes, this 17 y/o has putted me in her phone as "my king" and tried to convince me to put her in my phone under the name "my queen" lol
Also, talking about babies, marriage, overt sexual talk and steering it that way, accusing me of getting a hard on while she was grinding her ass on me the first time she saw me. She hsd the whole thing planned out.
Very claimy. When I called her out on that, she didnt even deny that.
Fond memories lmao
"Claimy" is a good word Kol.
To add my 2 cents: the FWB I was with was already looking for a relationship before we met, but within a month of seeing each other she was talking relationship, babies, and stuff like that. I remember her saying that "Some girls will have your baby as a means of trying to keep you around." that freaked me out. I was like "I would NEVER reward an unwanted pregnancy with a relationship" (words to that effect)
Anyhow, we all know how it ended. She just became unavailable and I stopped contacting and she did too.
Also, to echo lano, whenever I notice a girl getting physically close to me (like in the store if a girl is hovering or stops in front of me and looks at me) it freaks me out and I avoid. This is a very specific situation that triggers me. I suspect it's because it's weird. Instead of saying "excuse me, hi I thought you were cute and had to say hi" (a line I used to use and love using but apparently it doesn't work on girls. I think I'd like it used on me tho) they just hover or plant themselves in front of me. It creates this awkward tension of me thinking "what do you want?" It's just icky, for lack of a better word. I dunno. But maybe that will help as well.
Also, I had a girl call out to me in a bar one time while I was talking to my cousin. This was my own social ineptitude BUT it was an awkward situation. You don't abandon your friend for some strange girl BUT you do have to take advantage of the opportunity. I've replayed it over in my head how I could have invited her to sit with us after we were done talking or something but a simple "excuse me, I see you guys are deep in conversation but I'm attracted to you so, when you're ready, I'd like to get to know you better and I'll buy you a drink (she told me she wanted to get me drunk but a drink sounds better)."
And then from there it can be easy but I think a lot of it is my own social awkwardness in these kinds of situations. It's why I prefer online. Everyone knows what the score is.
I mean, the pick up line the 8.5 used on me in online was perfect because it was OBVIOUSLY a pick up line (to me anyways) so I knew right off the bat what she was about. But this hovering thing is just so bad. I think to myself, what would happen if when I'm doing sales and I have just knocked on the door, what would happen if I just silently "hovered" when the person opened the door. Prolly get the cops called. It's just not a very effective way to begin an interaction. Though I know their heart is in the right place.
