09-29-2018, 02:22 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-29-2018, 03:10 PM by MasterEnki.)
(09-29-2018, 11:57 AM)dissonance Wrote:(09-28-2018, 01:52 PM)CatMan Wrote:(09-28-2018, 01:47 PM)samba99 Wrote: Catman,
I think what Shannon meant is your deep fears what prevented you from achieving DMSI goals.
Therefore if you execute DMSI, you will get the girls you want.
Hi Samba,
We'll see if that happens. Like I've said before, I'm so glad that I have nowhere near as much fixation on girls as long ago. This constant failure doesn't bother me nearly as much anymore. Chasing them and obsessing over them seems to have been such a massive waste of time for me. I'm much more worried about this crisis at my second company, fixing that, rather than continuing to chase girls for zero ROI. I do know I'm vastly less interested in pursuing anything anymore. Maybe that's some IDGAF outcome independence, or some kind of sense of futility, who knows.
I just get irritated with this backwards notion that I'm "denying" these awesome results I'm apparently getting meanwhile I've been snubbed constantly. So I needed to speak up.
I meant nothing bad or troll etc. with my words. Probably a bit strong, but I didn't mean anything bad. Just wanted to be truthful.
What if deep down, you're resisting, because your true energy is not interested at all in having sex with lots of girls and/or having an abundant sex life with multiple women, and that if you took out any ego (just brainstorming), your true self would want just a committed, deep, emotionally mind body soul connection with one single female energy, rather than many meaningless sexual partners to fulfil an ego.
Maybe your idgaf attitude and lack of interest in chasing girls you are recently taking on is your inner self transforming you into the person who has the maximum sexual irresistibility level to the type of girl who you are *truly* deep down sexually attracted to, which maybe is someone who isn't just some basic high maintenance hottie (which maybe you arent actually truly attracted to; but just fulfils some pointless ego void), but someone who fulfils your desires and needs emotionally, psychologically, and sexually as well (someone who wont give a damn that you're a virgin)
Like for me, in recent weeks I've been having no interest at all in flirting with girls at my work, even though they're physically "beautiful", I have no actual deep-level sexual attraction to them, because i don't feel an emotional connection to any of them. I've had a shift as well in my own inner self and a lowering of ego and it's control over me. I haven't been flirting with them to try to make them like me or be attracted to me. I just dont care lol. Because now, I've "discovered" the type of girl who I'm actually TRULY deeply attracted to, and I've found one, and just building a connection with her now.
Or maybe I'm wrong. I'm just rambling my thoughts here.
This!!!
This is a very interesting point, and is worth considering / contemplating.
Edit: I’m more interested in getting one (or a couple) of really compatiable (on a deep level) sexual partner(s), rather than lots of random hotties.
That is why I choose AYP / MYP, instead of DMSI.
I reckon, a lot of guys here (and elsewhere) are looking for something deeper than just hotties.