I have come to realize that my mom suffer from not feeling safe and secure, and she use other people to get this feeling if she can. I have fallen into this trap before, because she in some way make you feel like you are doing something wrong if you don't "fall in line" with whatever she say or think or, it's hard to explain, if you "are" in a way she thinks are appropriate or whatever. Anyway, I am breaking away from this and leaving her in her own problems for now, I need to take care of myself. I don't have the energy to baby-sit her.
EDIT:
I thought about my formulation of the problem, and the problem is rather that she takes everything people do as it's got to do with her. Like she is being a victim when people do stuff that couldn't even be directed towards her, but she still finds it that way. It's very energy taxating if you can't shield yourself from it.
EDIT:
I thought about my formulation of the problem, and the problem is rather that she takes everything people do as it's got to do with her. Like she is being a victim when people do stuff that couldn't even be directed towards her, but she still finds it that way. It's very energy taxating if you can't shield yourself from it.
