Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Oversoul]

He didn't like the way you carry yourself? Wants to be a beard and tattoo model? Thought you should be respecting him for being older?

These all point to someone who got upset with you because they perceived your body language as stating that you were what they wished they were, which threatened their comfortable self perception and triggered their fears and insecurities.

Now of course we don't know all the details and variables, or his side of the story.

If that is what actually happened, that means that DMSI is working, and you are being perceived as Very High Value. VHV's usually gonna have haters. What we need to try to do is turn that "haterism" into admiration and get them following and possibly helping instead. That's going to require, yes, more energy.

Yeah, I think thats the case. He was the type to expect girls to glance at him ETC because of his tattoo, beard etc, but kept seeing girls give me IOIs lol.

@"kingpill"

Where did this incident happen?
Was it at a local cafe? Restaurant? Local library? Pub? Nightclub? Train station? Office at your workplace? Etc?

What time?
Was it day? night? At lunch? At a nightclub around midnight? Etc?

Was alcohol / drinking involved?

Night time in a pub so yeah, alcohol was involved.

What do you mean by ‘situationally’ / ‘situational’?

Situationally as in try talk to you/relate to you in relation to something happening in your environment, or a situation you are in etc.

I had a 9 approach me to talk to about a bad smell thats was lingering at a bar lol and asking me if I smell that and trying to progress on from there.

Ive also noticed that some girls seem to go red and lick their lips before they chat to me LOOOL.