(09-07-2018, 08:57 AM)Shannon Wrote:(09-06-2018, 01:12 PM)Mr. Anderson Wrote:(09-06-2018, 11:15 AM)lano1106 Wrote: To me, DMSI and SM3 achieve the same goal by taking different paths. I think that SM3 may have a strong appeal to some of us despite the old technologies because of the story/script that it is telling.
Yeah, what I like about SM is the fact that it empowers the man to do the job instead of waiting for the woman doing it. And I think there are other people who like that, too, even if it might not be necessary if DMSI succeeds.
SM doesn't empower you to do the job any more or less than DMSI does. It also doesn't make you wait for the woman to do it any more or less than DMSI does. It's furthering AM6, which is focusing you into a more active, masculine approach. But herein lies the rub:
Most of you associate "being a man" with "hunting woman". But who is more a man? A guy who goes to the gym, gets ripped and then goes out and hits on women, gives them the power by putting her in a position to reject or accept his advances, and then gets shot down 90%+ of the time, or the guy who doesn't go to the gym, isn't ripped, and has almost every attractive women doing tricks and making the moves to try to get him to **** them, while he goes about his life doing his thing and not worrying about women or sex?
The answer is that "which one is more a man" is a red herring. Neither is "more a man". But the guy who doesn't really try, but gets the attention, interest and sex anyway, is HIGHER VALUE, which is why he doesn't have to try.
The more you try, the lower your perceived value is to high value women. The less you try - while still interesting, attracting and getting the high value women, the higher your perceived value is to them.
Women want a man who is at least as valuable as they are, and preferably more so. You guys are all about going out and hunting them, and you go out and hunt them and try and try and try, and you peg yourself as not being at the very high levels of value by doing so. The harder he must try, the lower his value must be, she thinks. And that is instinctive for her. It may not even be something she is consciously aware of at all.
So a man who executes DMSI is always going to get swamped with interest because he is perceived as being so high value. He didn't have to do anything, and yet here these hot women are all noticing him, and noticing each other notice him, and competing for him. The only thing stopping you guys is...
1. You're stuck on the belief that "REAL men go hunt their pussy down", which makes you afraid to execute DMSI because you're worried that you can't approach while using DMSI (wrong), and not approaching makes you somehow less of a "real man", and
2. See #1.
Quote:Regarding DMSI and subs in general I realized today that I somehow don't trust the subconscious to do the job correctly, that's why I feel the need to be in control and I noticed on several occasions that I try to influence the aura consciously. Or some different things on different subs.
Which obviously works, right? Because you're drowning in pussy using that method, right? And the subconscious doesn't downright dwarf the conscious mind in terms of awareness, ability, capacity and capability. Which is why we need subs to begin with.
You can't sabotage yourself and get results.
This is one a very well cool post that I have seen you post about what being a man and how it relates with success with women.
I think that I really get that 'hunting women' isn't something that a high-status man would do, or have to do and I aspire to be that.
For me, running the AM6/SM3 programs or DMSI has never be something that I do to get women. It has always been ALL about me and becoming more masculine.
To understand why, I'm going to share some very personal shit. My parents got divorced when I was 6 years old and I have been raised by my feminist mother. My childhood was in the 80s. I had no great masculine model to copy either around me or in the medias.
I remember my childhood movies like Back To the Future. The movies are great but Michael J. Fox is the ultimate AFC when it comes to women.
I have been pretty much on my own for my whole life to define what being a man means. My feminist mother and society did throw a bunch BS at me that didn't help me at all. One consequence of that education and how it made me become is that I have never been as popular as I wished to be with women
I feel that I have done great so far but I still feel that I could be even 'more' alpha. This is the weak point that I am looking to address with AM6/SM3 and it is much more than just getting pussies... It is to become a better man and I feel, that I will better served with AM6/SM3 than with just DMSI...