08-26-2018, 03:39 PM
I am just back from Home Depot. I did seek help to find an item that I saw on their website by interrupting a clerk that ended up crossing my path. She turns out to be a very hot woman. She gave me few IOIs with the way she was looking at me. The amount of effort she did put to help me. I made her laugh. Her close proximity of me... When we finally concluded that what I was searching for, she was still standing beside me as if she was waiting for something to happen... I just did thank her and complimented on her awesome customer service. I did told her jokingly to that I would come back to tell her when I find my item.
During the whole interaction, it never occurred in my mind to propose for a date or anything. I could have gone for her phone number. I would think that it would have been probable that it would have worked considering the IOIs that I was seeing.
Well, I guess that the first step in changing is to recognize what I am not doing. So that step is done... I need to keep that lesson fresh in my mind so that I change my mind pattern in reaction to those easy opportunities...
During the whole interaction, it never occurred in my mind to propose for a date or anything. I could have gone for her phone number. I would think that it would have been probable that it would have worked considering the IOIs that I was seeing.
Well, I guess that the first step in changing is to recognize what I am not doing. So that step is done... I need to keep that lesson fresh in my mind so that I change my mind pattern in reaction to those easy opportunities...
