Do looks and status matter ?

[rayrocanaldo]

Remember everyone it's not about getting every girl. It's about getting the girls where there is a mutual attraction. There's not always a case where you've done something wrong. Sometimes it's her situation, sometimes the woman is superficial, sometimes the woman just has different qualities for a guy in mind. It's not your fault every time. Although it is a good thing to have the mindset of "how can I change to better myself and get better results" because it gives you the power.

I would have not said "not bad" on the text message. That response to me is terrible. You could of teased her or given her points then done something to get her to meet.

Also her being so forward with sex was a shit-test. I would have teased for that.

You got it. I didn’t tease her enough and was too eager. But I was just being myself. If I had been running game, I would have nailed her. This is my whole point.

But, I am sure at the end of the day, you dont want to run "game". You want to be you and be liked for you and just be naturally attractive, irresistible & likeable. Sure, we want to have some ways of handling situations as they come up but I want those ways to come from a deep core belief that " I am attractive ". Not " I am using this technique so you'll like me more". After she likes you for your technique, later, you'll revert back to being who you were before and she'll leave you anyways.

Yeah, in the same way I want to be able to sit at home and eat potato chips on the couch playing video games and magically grow muscles and manifest perfect tens to suck my dick. But this is reality, and sometimes we have to do things we don't want to get results we want. I'm just facing reality and realize that yes, this is what women want, and I am 100% ok with that because the universe, in it's infinite wisdom, designed the whole thing thus. And what I, personally, want, is insignificant when compared with evolution and the nature of sex. GET WITH IT.

It's just like having form in the gym. You can't just "believe" your form is good while having a terrible form. You won't gain any muscle (form includes diet as well). It's painfully simple. The only problem is MOST guys can't handle the fact that THEY NEED TO CHANGE. But that's all it is. Once you get rid of your ego and swallow that pill, things start to work.

I agreed with the change part and doing things to get what we want. But if change is what is described in the forum. As in, you listen to the subliminals and you just let it go and let it do it's thang without doing anything to achieve the goal. I couldn't agree less.