Do looks and status matter ?

[SargeMaximus]

Here's the deal: a woman will not go cold if she's into you.

Therefore, if they go from hot to cold, you DEFINITELY did something wrong.

A PUA guy I know told me what I did wrong but I'd rather not share it. For now just meditate on that fact: If a girl goes from hot to cold YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.

Remember everyone it's not about getting every girl. It's about getting the girls where there is a mutual attraction. There's not always a case where you've done something wrong. Sometimes it's her situation, sometimes the woman is superficial, sometimes the woman just has different qualities for a guy in mind. It's not your fault every time. Although it is a good thing to have the mindset of "how can I change to better myself and get better results" because it gives you the power.

I would have not said "not bad" on the text message. That response to me is terrible. You could of teased her or given her points then done something to get her to meet.

Also her being so forward with sex was a shit-test. I would have teased for that.

You got it. I didn’t tease her enough and was too eager. But I was just being myself. If I had been running game, I would have nailed her. This is my whole point.

But, I am sure at the end of the day, you dont want to run "game". You want to be you and be liked for you and just be naturally attractive, irresistible & likeable. Sure, we want to have some ways of handling situations as they come up but I want those ways to come from a deep core belief that " I am attractive ". Not " I am using this technique so you'll like me more". After she likes you for your technique, later, you'll revert back to being who you were before and she'll leave you anyways.

Yeah, in the same way I want to be able to sit at home and eat potato chips on the couch playing video games and magically grow muscles and manifest perfect tens to suck my dick. But this is reality, and sometimes we have to do things we don't want to get results we want. I'm just facing reality and realize that yes, this is what women want, and I am 100% ok with that because the universe, in it's infinite wisdom, designed the whole thing thus. And what I, personally, want, is insignificant when compared with evolution and the nature of sex. GET WITH IT.

Also, I won't revert because I will (hopefully) learn my lesson.

Even today in sales I reverted to a bad state and got some bad reactions. But I recognized it was faulty and went back to doing what works.

It's just like having form in the gym. You can't just "believe" your form is good while having a terrible form. You won't gain any muscle (form includes diet as well). It's painfully simple. The only problem is MOST guys can't handle the fact that THEY NEED TO CHANGE. But that's all it is. Once you get rid of your ego and swallow that pill, things start to work.

Game and tactics are just frameworks to use. The beliefs behind them are what you need to internalize. Take that $hit and make it yours in your own flavor.

For example, tactics might say to never be super eager. But what if your being Fked a lot? You would act the same way.

I'm not sure what you're saying.

Are you asking me if, in a magical world where I was f*cking tens, I would still be eager to f*ck a new girl and act the way I did in that online interaction? The answer is "yes" if I had my way.

But the answer is also no because, as we've seen, that DOESN'T get girls, so there's no way I'd be f*cking tens if I acted like that.

The problem here is the faulty belief that you can put the cart before the horse and succeed.

You CANNOT put a belief in place of the right tactics/form and work required of any endeavor.