(08-21-2018, 08:24 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(08-21-2018, 08:10 PM)Leo1990 Wrote:(08-21-2018, 04:55 AM)Frosted Wrote:(08-20-2018, 06:31 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(08-20-2018, 06:14 PM)Jake2015 Wrote: @SargeMaximusWhat did you do wrong exactly though? She wanted you and you asked for her number and she went cold.
Here's the deal: a woman will not go cold if she's into you.
Therefore, if they go from hot to cold, you DEFINITELY did something wrong.
A PUA guy I know told me what I did wrong but I'd rather not share it. For now just meditate on that fact: If a girl goes from hot to cold YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.
Remember everyone it's not about getting every girl. It's about getting the girls where there is a mutual attraction. There's not always a case where you've done something wrong. Sometimes it's her situation, sometimes the woman is superficial, sometimes the woman just has different qualities for a guy in mind. It's not your fault every time. Although it is a good thing to have the mindset of "how can I change to better myself and get better results" because it gives you the power.
I would have not said "not bad" on the text message. That response to me is terrible. You could of teased her or given her points then done something to get her to meet.
Also her being so forward with sex was a shit-test. I would have teased for that.
You got it. I didn’t tease her enough and was too eager. But I was just being myself. If I had been running game, I would have nailed her. This is my whole point.
Game and tactics are just frameworks to use. The beliefs behind them are what you need to internalize. Take that $hit and make it yours in your own flavor.
For example, tactics might say to never be super eager. But what if your being Fked a lot? You would act the same way.