Do looks and status matter ?

[SargeMaximus]

It is beneficial to have a "I'll get every girl" mindset because you won't BS yourself when you're messing up. It's too easy to say "oh it wasn't a mutual attraction" as a cop out when you fail with a girl.

In sales I do the same thing, my goal is to get everyone. Of course that's not possible, but it forces me to keep improving and keep doing the best I can.

As long as it's not a desperate "I have to get every girl, if one is not into me then my whole world collapses" mindset it's ok.

Obviously.

More an abundance mindset "if she chooses differently then she misses out, not me. I can also get the next one." But it has to really be abundance and not an excuse to not go for that girl. You will feel the difference when you are alone at home. Do you feel bad alone? Scarcity mindset. Do you feel good and enjoy also your time alone because you know this is not always? Then it's abundance.

Forget all that. Abundance, scarcity, throw that stuff in the metaphysical trash.

All that matters are results. Are you getting them or not? Then be unafraid to admit the truth to yourself and courageous enough to meet the challenge.

One day we're all gonna be dead. All that matters is if you had the life YOU wanted, not if you felt abundance or not.