Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Oversoul]

Charisma and confidence do play a role in attracting hot women. However the two main factors that get women to sleep with you are status and looks. Charisma and confidence with women are icing on the cake.

Status + Looks = No need to talk so much I have already decided I want to sleep with you.

I have a far easier time sleeping with hotties in the balkans because I am an expat and seen as high value plus I have a latino look which stands out a mile away. All the rest of the guys are caucasian which makes up this homogenous gene pool.

If I was in London it would not be easy to sleep with the hottest women. I mean its not impossible but alot more difficult. Despite me having the confidence and charisma.

I always make a girl feel happy.

I am and have been told that im one of the funniest confident men some know (from uni) and i know this to be true.

I am very quick witted and able to make most situations funny and I dont do it to impress anyone its just something I do (perhaps it began for the need for validation or attention or approval who knows).

Now when i see a girl I like I try and play it cool and calm and make her laugh.

Guess what, im making her FEEL really good, really happy. So anyone saying its about how you make a girl feel well guess what im making them feel great....

BUT these girls have already made an impression about me based on my looks. Based on my grooming, my clothes/dress sense/style, my walk, my posture. They have already in a split second figured out if im their type or not.

ALL of these women will love harrison ford or the rock - no matter how dead their personalities are (and both bore the **** outta me lol) but because they are good looking guys they fall for them and this goes for any good looking guy.

If i was good looking and then had good dress, style, and my wit etc boom i would be unstoppable im sure.

ITS ALL ABOUT LOOKS and thats as clear as day.

Office romances, casual flings and all these sex based relationships happen due to looks also known as lust.

How do you show your sexual intent to these girls that find you funny and confident?

sorry i never saw this till now.

I will ask them to go for a meal and they will tell me either that were just friends or that im such a cool respectable nice guy etc.

If I try anything else then I could scare them or come across too creep sleazy I think.

I always get the im only a friend response anyway even though before that theyre laughing away etc.

Its 100% to do with looks.

You gotta 'risk creepy'. Girls like having sex with 'badboys' or 'f**kboys' with not 'cool respectable guys'. Those are the ones they will settle down with after having all their fun.

Basically you gotta be abit of a dickhead to them in a funny/cocky way and tease them a little bit while being sexually confident.

Without an element of danger, seduction isn't seduction.