08-20-2018, 04:31 PM
(08-18-2018, 11:15 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Wear tighter clothes. But you’ll still see that initial attraction fizzle out if you run shitty game.
Thanks for offering advice,
Where I live (it is likely different where you live), tight clothes = automatic gay (in the typical stranger’s mind).
Tight clothes + ripped physique + beard = raging fag (in the typical stranger’s mind).
As stupid as it is, both genders seem to judge based on someone’s fashion.
Nothing against gays, but I am straight and want to be seen as straight.
In other places, tight clothes may be perceived differently and not-so-homo. Tight clothes could be okay in other cultures / places.
If my skin didn’t sunburn so quickly / easily / badly, I would go to a popular beach and walk around with no shirt on. I would likely have no clothes on except board-shorts (shorts that surfers tend to wear that go down to just below the knee).
From my experience, looks don’t get you very far.
The thing that seems to scare women off is my voice. My natural voice naturally sounds ‘retarded’, as in just like the stereotypical ‘special needs’ character from TV Shows / Movies / Popular Culture.
People automatically assume I’m ‘special needs’ based on my voice, and I tend to be stigmatised because of it.
The typical woman never gives me a chance (for her to get to know me).
I seem to be like olives or really vintage cheese. I’m an acquired taste / niche product. Women who have gotten to know the real me, over several years, seem to like me.
I’ve been kissed, recently, by 4 women who have known me for years. It fizzed out quite quickly. Not sure why. Maybe I was a terrible kisser?
No other woman has ever kissed me, other than the 4 long term acquaintances / friends (that have known me for years).
My main strategy will have to be, focus on being friends first (so she gets to know the real me), and then try ‘showcase’ my sexy side, and hopefully that will lead to more than just friends.
Manifestation is my best chance. And maybe the only way I will get sexual partner(s).
If I focus on the ‘friends’ part, manifestation should (eventually) take care of the ‘with benefits’ part.
