Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Jake2015]

Its very confusing. we have to play games, resist, detract from being too nice, too friendly, too jovial, too receptive to make them want us and by then tbh I've given up caring so much and yet then they want you.

You know I think it's not that much complicated...I think it's a matter of looks AND status. I know people hate to hear that but it's true. You can get away with doing EVERYTHING wrong, but still get chicks just because of looks and status.

That's a reality I think isn't popular but more true than people choose to believe.

Looks matter, sorry. I see how girls drool over "hot guys", it's clear as day. No sub to make your looks into a "hot guy" to my knowledge, sadly. No PUA program can do that either. So it's never talked about, or if it is, it's importance is undercut greatly. I've seen often how girls react to "hot guys", I'm 100% positive they like hotness just as much as we do. It's reality.

Status too. Sometimes I wish I could overlook the hot girls into me that are gold digging or status chasing...it'd make things so much easier for me on the surface. But, I'd always have the nagging feeling they don't care about me and only want me for my $$$ and status. I don't want that, I already have enough issues with my own feeling of attractiveness and self esteem in regards to women etc. Shitty situation if I did that. I bought DMSI to somehow "make" me sexually attractive so I can attract them naturally, but I agree I have severe doubts it can actually do so and still don't understand HOW the sub makes you sexy to women you find sexy. Still don't understand that process at all, makes it hard to really get behind, never mind the results so far after over two years of using it. We'll see...wait for V3.3 now I guess nothing else to do.

Exactly! With me I have a friendly funny personality with wit and charm ive been told and as soon as I make a female laugh and feel shes enjoying my company I feel okay well shes into me and guess what she isnt.

Im not ugly, ive just lost my looks by losing hair and becoming fat but thats reinforced it for me that the reality is that women favour good looks no matter what.

A girl a young girl but nevertheless a girl at uni told me or rather reminded me that she and all girls notice a guy based on his looks and then after his personality. THAT is the same for us guys, we are attracted to whatever it is about a girl that attracts us and then we see how she is as a person.

Besides the AURA of DMSI being what I think is the core for making a girl find us sexually irresistible (and no idea how that works) I do hope oh man I do hope that it the sub can also help with our looks too