08-17-2018, 01:42 AM
(This post was last modified: 08-17-2018, 01:56 AM by Zeroxmachina.)
(08-16-2018, 03:05 PM)CatMan Wrote: I've used the program for two years, since V2.2. Was the funny/nice/charming guy, still am viewed as such. Don't see any sexual attraction from women, no sexual escalation from them. I either have gotten LJBF, or excuses when asking them out and trying to take initiative because they weren't approaching me like design goal so I tried to do something. Or ghosting me when I'd text them to go out if I had their number. Clearly not high value, or sexually attractive. Even after two years of listening. Never mind my old SM3 run etc. I guess it's no surprise why I basically don't bother anymore with women, now that I went back and read that.
Makes it hard to get behind the program to be honest, not seeing anything happen to me in reality, after two years, that makes me stop and say "wow, this thing is for real!". It's why I'm still very skeptical of it. Since it can't change our physical appearance and face to be a "hot guy", not sure what it does to somehow make women we are attracted to, attracted to us. No idea how that exactly is supposed to work in reality. How it "knows" what girls we like, and makes them like us as much as we like them. It still seems very late night infomercially to me, lol. No idea how that happens. I always seem to say "we'll see, when I run the next version" over and over, but...we'll see what happens when I run the next version!
Most of the dudes in this forum don't understand women at all. They don't care about looks, they care about the way things make them feel. An 'attractive' guy is attractive because his physical attributes make a woman feel some type of way that's positive on a primal level, 'good hunter/good gatherer/leadership' etc. With very little exception, an average looking guy (myself for instance) is capable of generating similar feelings or emotions within women, regardless whether they'd normally consider me their type, I exclusively have hardly ever had the benefit of using physical characteristics, it's about the energy you project, learning how to push back, how to pull, and basically navigating what is a rather complex landscape. Don't let people tell you that you need to become an asshole, no figure out how to be yourself in a way that's interesting, how to embody your personal essence in a way that attracts what it is you're looking for. Of course it's easier for tall,buff dudes, that's animal stuff, we have the ability to use our higher brain functions to give us an edge. Everyone has a shortcoming, yet in all actuality those are simply excuses. I think the first thing to do would be figuring out what it is you're passionate about, and figure out how to either meet females that have the same passion, or figure out how to express yourself in an interesting way about it in an engaging way. This would be a good start, the simple fact is, most dudes can't hold a conversation to save their lives, but again women are MENTAL, they require time and elbow grease yo~, but if you're looking for quality and companionship, what have you got to lose?
And let me make another point that people who don't actually understand female psyches probably miss, women will directly rationalize their attraction to THEMSELVES, whether or not those reasons are actually based in reality. Once it's there, its there. I've met women that like big guys, as in not muscular big but actually chubby dudes, why? "He is like a big teddy bear", or guys who are overly hairy, "It's manly for a guy to have a hairy chest", the key is in reality it doesn't actually matter about the guy's characteristics, they simply justify their attraction for whoever makes them feel attracted. Period. So here's what i'd say to anyone having trouble, figure out what makes you 'special' and learn how to channel that, it's your angle. You don't need money, height, or good looks to get laid, you simply need to be interesting in a way that stimulates a woman's mind, and having a bit of an edge helps, but again, the key is finding your natural way of representing your own primal self. Self-awareness is key to basically anything. That's my two cents on it, let it marinate.
