08-09-2018, 02:38 PM
(08-09-2018, 07:33 AM)josh84 Wrote: I dont appreciate that comment about just paying for hookers, i have never done so ever but that lack of experience can also be stopping me from executing too.
I'm not saying anything that is intended to offend. If you're thinking about paying for sex, then you're thinking about hiring a hooker, and that's how it sounded when I read it. Some people think that's a way to get experience, and it is - but it's not the kind of experience that helps in some of the ways people want to think it does.
Lack of experience is what results in fear. It's fear of the unknown. But hookers aren't going to give you the right "known" for what you're trying to do.
Quote:I asked a question is my fear for letting a situation go further because of my inexperience possibly preventing me from executing the script as i am afraid that if i execute the script and women approach or it helps me to put myself into a situation where i might make a move on a woman that may lead to a situation i have rarely experienced that i wont let dmsi work and continue to escalate.
Simple question can i be using that inexperience in my head to resist executing.
As I explained, inexperience is like a computer operating system that has no code for a specific event. Without that code, the OS doesn't know what to do when that event happens. In a computer, it results in a system crash. In a human, it results in fear and avoidance. You're not using the inexperience to resist, you're using the fear.
Quote:Basically in my subconscious or conscious mind my lack of confidence in knowing what to do with a woman such as escalating in any form could be resulting in me not executing the script.
Indirectly, yes. But hiding from the experience only increases the fear, and prevents the rest of the operating system from working out how to code the response to the event, if you follow my computer analogy.
Quote:I am providing you with some details on a form of resistance that may or may not be stopping the script executing that you might of found useful or not.
I'm already aware of the issue with inexperience, but again, all resistance boils down to fear. Which is what I am working on removing.
Quote:If you say dmsi can override all our conscious and subconscious thinking that has me worried around a woman and not letting anything happen well then that would be great but yet to see that so thats why i asked.
It does not override. It attempts to steer. With enough fear, you can refuse to cooperate.
Quote:As an example many months ago i got a couple dances with a lady in a club, simple thing she was just happy dancing with anyone but there was not a seconds thought in trying to kiss this lady or try to escalate out of the fear of not knowing when or how to do things right.
The fear part is regarding me no one else.
Okay. Ultimately, you are just dealing with the restrictions your fears place on you, or the results of not feeling fear.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!