Shannon
For all I know this or something similar could already be in DMSI but just wanted to throw it out there. I was just wondering if you've thought about putting partial/staged execution into DMSI, meaning let's take an extreme example and say a guy wakes up from a 10 year coma at the age of 18 and has 0 experience with women, the last thing he remembers about women is sharing his crayons with a classmate. Obviously he'll have some blocks and inexperience to get over in order to reach the final goals of DMSI but maybe he could execute at or +1 step of what he's ready for. So for example instead of DMSI trying to execute "women approach me for sex" it would look more like:
Starts DMSI, women start taking quick glances at him, he's not entirely ready for that so healing takes place
now women hold eye contact instead of just glancing, more healing
now women start to hold eye contact and smile, more healing
now women begin initiating conversations, more healing
now conversations turn flirty/sexual, more healing
now women begin initiating romantic touch, more healing
now they start initiating kissing, more healing
etc...
I thought about it before but figured it would require a multi stage program like am6 and I know you and many others wanted a single stage program. But after catching up with a guy who REALLY struggled with women I think a gradual approach + gained experience might be the way to go. It's not like the guy wasn't trying he just couldn't get anywhere, some blocks obviously, but at age 26 he'd never even held a womans hand. Last year he finally gave in and I convinced him to try pheromones and started him off with 100% socials and little by little he improved, with or without them but it was a bit of 2 steps forward 1 step back. The first night he wore pheromones he literally ran out of the bar when a woman looked at him and smiled, after some months of almost daily practice he managed to get to the point of bringing women home, but had some serious blocks about even bringing them into his room or seeing them naked.
In December he moved Vegas for work and finally cracked and decided he was just going to pay for it which I advised him not to do but he went with it anyways, his first 5 escort visits resulted in nothing due to his hangups. He's financially successful so he kept going at it and went on a bit of rampage but around #10 he finally had sex and then stopped at #35. Funnily what stopped him wasn't the money or shame, but rather he noticed increase interest from women and fumbled around with 2 women before finally being able to "close the deal" with the 3rd non-escort woman and he says having sex was like a snowball effect for him. Once he got passed the sex hurdle, then the non-escort hurdle, it's been a normal and active sex life for him.
Again I don't recommend guys take this route, but I do think that 2 steps forward and 1 step back approach and the slow and gradual conscious experience greatly helped him. Sadly he decided to go the escort route when he likely would have had the same result with non-escorts if he didn't stop after a few last minute failures.
Now back to DMSI if a guy has little or no experience it might take a long time for him to heal towards "women approach me for sex" but getting them to execute "women are drawn to me and start friendly conversations" would be a lot easier, let them gain some real world experience for their conscious mind, and then can move on to the next stage of execution.
I think the best analogy would be like using a subliminal to learn a language, lets say the english to french translations were packed into a subliminal and if put on the spot yea you could intuitively guess the french word for apple but you might stutter and the pronunciation would be a little off. Some minor success but if asked to deliver a speech completely in french with no preparation as an analogy to going from no/little sexual experience to full DMSI execution, the results may not be very impressive. But if somebody used the subliminal + took language lessons + practiced speaking short common sentences their first couple of full french speeches would be a little rough but native speakers would guess he has 5 years of experience rather than 5 months.
Again I don't know if something like this is already in DMSI or if it would be possible, just typing out loudly pretty much.
For all I know this or something similar could already be in DMSI but just wanted to throw it out there. I was just wondering if you've thought about putting partial/staged execution into DMSI, meaning let's take an extreme example and say a guy wakes up from a 10 year coma at the age of 18 and has 0 experience with women, the last thing he remembers about women is sharing his crayons with a classmate. Obviously he'll have some blocks and inexperience to get over in order to reach the final goals of DMSI but maybe he could execute at or +1 step of what he's ready for. So for example instead of DMSI trying to execute "women approach me for sex" it would look more like:
Starts DMSI, women start taking quick glances at him, he's not entirely ready for that so healing takes place
now women hold eye contact instead of just glancing, more healing
now women start to hold eye contact and smile, more healing
now women begin initiating conversations, more healing
now conversations turn flirty/sexual, more healing
now women begin initiating romantic touch, more healing
now they start initiating kissing, more healing
etc...
I thought about it before but figured it would require a multi stage program like am6 and I know you and many others wanted a single stage program. But after catching up with a guy who REALLY struggled with women I think a gradual approach + gained experience might be the way to go. It's not like the guy wasn't trying he just couldn't get anywhere, some blocks obviously, but at age 26 he'd never even held a womans hand. Last year he finally gave in and I convinced him to try pheromones and started him off with 100% socials and little by little he improved, with or without them but it was a bit of 2 steps forward 1 step back. The first night he wore pheromones he literally ran out of the bar when a woman looked at him and smiled, after some months of almost daily practice he managed to get to the point of bringing women home, but had some serious blocks about even bringing them into his room or seeing them naked.
In December he moved Vegas for work and finally cracked and decided he was just going to pay for it which I advised him not to do but he went with it anyways, his first 5 escort visits resulted in nothing due to his hangups. He's financially successful so he kept going at it and went on a bit of rampage but around #10 he finally had sex and then stopped at #35. Funnily what stopped him wasn't the money or shame, but rather he noticed increase interest from women and fumbled around with 2 women before finally being able to "close the deal" with the 3rd non-escort woman and he says having sex was like a snowball effect for him. Once he got passed the sex hurdle, then the non-escort hurdle, it's been a normal and active sex life for him.
Again I don't recommend guys take this route, but I do think that 2 steps forward and 1 step back approach and the slow and gradual conscious experience greatly helped him. Sadly he decided to go the escort route when he likely would have had the same result with non-escorts if he didn't stop after a few last minute failures.
Now back to DMSI if a guy has little or no experience it might take a long time for him to heal towards "women approach me for sex" but getting them to execute "women are drawn to me and start friendly conversations" would be a lot easier, let them gain some real world experience for their conscious mind, and then can move on to the next stage of execution.
I think the best analogy would be like using a subliminal to learn a language, lets say the english to french translations were packed into a subliminal and if put on the spot yea you could intuitively guess the french word for apple but you might stutter and the pronunciation would be a little off. Some minor success but if asked to deliver a speech completely in french with no preparation as an analogy to going from no/little sexual experience to full DMSI execution, the results may not be very impressive. But if somebody used the subliminal + took language lessons + practiced speaking short common sentences their first couple of full french speeches would be a little rough but native speakers would guess he has 5 years of experience rather than 5 months.
Again I don't know if something like this is already in DMSI or if it would be possible, just typing out loudly pretty much.
