03-19-2012, 07:41 PM
(03-18-2012, 11:19 PM)Shannon Wrote:(03-18-2012, 08:26 PM)The GK Wrote: Shannon,
the negatives things about program are getting more and more apparent. The biggest one being that the whole semester seems to going to waste. I feel completely lost. All I can conclude with so far, is that the program is ruining me.
I'm taking a day off to see how I feel about continuing with the program. But if I do decide get of this program, will there be any cons to stop in middle of program?
I don't understand what you mean by "ruining you" and "the whole semester seems to be going to waste".
If you stop in the middle, and it's a six stage set, why would you think there would not be cons? It's not finished doing what it's designed to do yet. Is your resistance that bad?
I am personally finding that my whole problem was not getting out and socializing. It was pushing me to socialize and seek, and I was resisting that. Once I got myself out into public, the effects are apparent, and I am really liking them. Is it possible that this is your problem, too?
I'd like to help you if I can, can you give me some more specifics about how you use it, when, how long, speaker setup, and how frequently you socialize? And, what were you like before this in this direction?
It's ruining me in the sense that all of my motivation is gone. I'm a student and the motivation to study or to do anything else is gone. I've missed some major deadlines because of that. Same thing happened during AM, but the motivation returned when I took a break from subs for about 2 months.
I don't know if quiting would have any cons or not, all I know right now is that there seems to only be cons if I choose to continue with the program. That's the problem.
Yes, I've been socializing very little during the program. Again, because of the reasons stated in earlier posts.
