07-25-2018, 02:47 AM
Been really getting into reality transurfing. It's weird, every page I pick up to read it coincides with something I've been struggling with or attempting to overcome. For example women. The author states when you try to be the best or beat others in some way you generate excess potential. What happens is with DMSI I find myself trying to be "better" somehow. But what I should really do is just enjoy myself and acknowledge this isn't a competition and there are plenty of beautiful women for every guy. By having the mentality of being the most attractive in the room or excessively comparing myself to others I get the exact opposite of what I hoped for. Now this is most likely based in insecurities, but it most definitely results in outward manifestation.
So all that being said it's very important to have your motivations in the right place. Motivation to execute DMSI for yourself to improve yourself and enjoy life is good. Motivation based on comparson and "beating" other guys is bad. If you hold that mentality you engage in a race which is stressful and more than likely someone will be better than you in what you're trying to accomplish.
Bottom line is if you're a perfectionist, like me, you have habits that build up huge excess potential and basically invite events into your life that are undesired.
So all that being said it's very important to have your motivations in the right place. Motivation to execute DMSI for yourself to improve yourself and enjoy life is good. Motivation based on comparson and "beating" other guys is bad. If you hold that mentality you engage in a race which is stressful and more than likely someone will be better than you in what you're trying to accomplish.
Bottom line is if you're a perfectionist, like me, you have habits that build up huge excess potential and basically invite events into your life that are undesired.
INFP
