07-09-2018, 10:26 AM
(07-09-2018, 08:59 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(07-09-2018, 08:46 AM)thor2014 Wrote: I suspect that there is an obsession with PUA and game which might hinder the execution of DMSI for some people. The reason I believe this is the case is that I hear alot of people say that they did not have tight game that is why they never got laid with the girl. That tells me they have already placed the girl on a pedestial. That is I need game before I can get laid whereas DMSI execution does not require you to know PUA or have game.
Thor I’m curious and would love your opinion on why I have only gotten laid by using pua...
Sarge correct me if I am wrong I remember in one of your posts you did mention that you were told by a dating coach or maybe friends you are a good looking guy. So if you are an "8" on the looks scale taking hypergamy into account. Anyone who is an 8 should be able to pull someone of the opposite sex on the same looks scale or below. Looks can be amplified using grooming, makeup, shaving, facial creams, gym etc. A guy who is a 7 can easily become a 9. Despite what PUA tells you looks and grooming play a huge role in attraction.
Game or PUA is an illusion it just gives you some structure or gambits to use to get to the end goal which is getting her into bed. These gambits are usually dialogues centered around what to say as most guys do not have a clue on what to say to or how to talk to women.
Now the way game is marketed if it really worked why are so many guys struggling to get the so called 9s and 10s and the super models of this world. Why are so many guys investing in SM, WM and DMSI ?.
DMSI has actually pushed me to workout on a regular basis and dress to kill as well giving me the confidence and drive make things happen. On numerous occasions I have looked into the eyes of a girl and she started to blush, giggle or begin to show signs of interest. On occasions some girls cannot handle the sexual tension and move away from me.
