Jakes DMSI 3.2B - *Closed!*

[Jake2015]

Part of it would be looks if your not taking care of yourself. Once you do, its not about looks. Being in-shape is baseline. Skills is what makes you go above baseline.

What I am saying is, when you're not in shape, you think its about looks. When you do become in shape, you realize its not from that point on. (But you still need to take care of yourself).

ok that does make sense now, but does that mean therefore that a fat guy, who perhaps isnt in his best shape cannot get the same success as a guy that is in shape? in this case it is about looks right?

but of course if youre in shape the same way a girl in shape will usually out do a girl out of shape then you will always do well?

Actually now a days theyre pushing how hot girls of all shapes and sizes are to boost their self esteem but yet to guys it varies, some love big fat girls, some like small slim girls and rest are in between.

#confusing lol

While not impossible, I think the difficulty is much, much, greater. Some women wont even give you a first glance, let alone a second. Unless your Chris Farley (RIP).

So shaving your head, getting in shape is definitely in your favor. But don't read into this too much. Looking good is what it is about.

Unless you like large obese women, see it from a womans point-of-view.

Chris Farley The Only Beverly Hills Ninja!

I see what youre saying now. Will shaving my head limit however the number of women that will be attracted to me then?

I guess here what im wondering is, whereas us men dont go for the same kinda guy, we like hot women but for some it can be a brunette here or a blonde there depending on what about her attracts us physically, then is it the same with and for women?

If I thought women thought the same as men, which I do, then I would say that looks matter, since yes an obese woman to me would be the same as an obese men for them, therefore then its right to say, that for women looks do matter the same as they do for men, so how can it be that looks dont matter.

For example, if its about emotion, arent we men attracted to a hot or good looking girl that has some personality, some charm about her? I know I am, I mean i know what would turn me off on a hot girl, and its her voice or the way she carries herself or behaves with or without alcohol, so its the same for women yes?

Im not trying to be awkward or facetious, but im following my own logic and train of thought and it seems to me that whereas in the past I was led to somehow believe that for women looks dont matter, its clear so far that yes looks do matter, so if they dont matter as much as they do for us men, well havent I just shown that yes they do matter just as much.

Yes women prefer a guy that looks attractive, so right body fat %, nice toned build perhaps and personality counts, and yet for us men, isnt it the same that we like again females we find attractive and personality counts too?