05-21-2018, 11:35 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-21-2018, 11:48 PM by dissonance.)
Going on a date this Thursday with a girl I met through OkCupid. She said she was down for friend with benefits type thing to have fun with during weekends, but she can't have sex with me right off the bat. I said thats understandable. We then reveal to each other that we both live at home, so we have no privacy. But she decides to mention shes home alone till coming Sunday... lol
Later in the convo, i say "i was just thinkin to meet to see if we click early enough so we'll have that free home alone time to do what we want
".
Then she says "lol i dont have sex with the guy until ive dated him a bit, thats my one rule" then a few seconds later she says "if we meet and click then sounds good".
I said "how come you mentioned you're gonna be home alone?"
She says "idk, in case you wanted to hang out. I wasnt referring to sex, i was just being honest"
Later during our planning for the date, I mention a place near me, but 1 hr away from her (she lives an hour away). She then asks if we can try a place thats like 35 minutes away from me, but much closer to her. Then I schedule a time for 730, then she says why so late? And I say to avoid traffic, but i can do earlier if she wants. Then she says...."would 630 be ok, theyre only open till 9pm and i assume we'll be chatting for a bit" LOL
I didn't realize it at first, but I'm beginning to think this is all on purpose from her side to enable the logistics and ease of having sex on the first date. She changed restaurant location to a closer distance to her place (which she is home alone for several days), and also moved our date earlier an hour which I'm assuming is because she wants more potential time to have sex before having to go to sleep for work lol.
This was Sunday night. Monday night, she texts me first, "How was your day?
" and we have a short convo. I feel like she really wants me and is really open to first date sex lol even though she mentioned her little "rule".
What do you guys think?
Later in the convo, i say "i was just thinkin to meet to see if we click early enough so we'll have that free home alone time to do what we want
". Then she says "lol i dont have sex with the guy until ive dated him a bit, thats my one rule" then a few seconds later she says "if we meet and click then sounds good".
I said "how come you mentioned you're gonna be home alone?"
She says "idk, in case you wanted to hang out. I wasnt referring to sex, i was just being honest"
Later during our planning for the date, I mention a place near me, but 1 hr away from her (she lives an hour away). She then asks if we can try a place thats like 35 minutes away from me, but much closer to her. Then I schedule a time for 730, then she says why so late? And I say to avoid traffic, but i can do earlier if she wants. Then she says...."would 630 be ok, theyre only open till 9pm and i assume we'll be chatting for a bit" LOL
I didn't realize it at first, but I'm beginning to think this is all on purpose from her side to enable the logistics and ease of having sex on the first date. She changed restaurant location to a closer distance to her place (which she is home alone for several days), and also moved our date earlier an hour which I'm assuming is because she wants more potential time to have sex before having to go to sleep for work lol.
This was Sunday night. Monday night, she texts me first, "How was your day?
" and we have a short convo. I feel like she really wants me and is really open to first date sex lol even though she mentioned her little "rule". What do you guys think?
