(05-21-2018, 03:46 AM)JackOfHearts Wrote:(05-20-2018, 10:09 AM)Zane Wrote: Since I already mentioned that me and my bro sleep in same room so we both are exposed to DMSI. But he doesn't know.A long distance relationship? It sounds like a relationship that doesn't exist to begin with. 7 years and he didn't met one of her family member? He is probably not seeing her and she is using him to fight boredom as he send her text messages.
So, I sometimes see the signs of DMSI working on him.
Today my brother told me that he has broken up with his gf.. They met when they were in high school but he was in long distance relationship with her for past 5 years. The reason he broke up with her because he told everyone in my family about her so he expected her to do the same.. Yet its been total 7 years and that gurl didn't mention him to her family members, not even one... Infact he was planning to marry her after he gets a good job and is financially stable..
So he got fed up of her and told her that he's in love with some other girl. Cause he says he waited for 4-5years for her to tell about their relationship to their parents but she's didn't.. Due to fear I guess..
Tbh I never expected him to make this move. Also he broke up with her when he was exposed to DMSI.. So I don't think this is a coincidence.
Anyway tbh I think my brother is wasting time trying to find this soulmate and stuff cause I really don't see anything happening. I think he just want to connect with someone on deep level and stuff.
I have been watching him ever since he was a kid. He has fallen in love multiple times for long-term.
First was my cousin sister ever since they were kids and he loved her till 9th grade
After that there was a gurl named Emma on internet
After that he fell in love with another girl in 11th grade.. Started as friends.
Then 7 years long relationship with this..
And now this new gurl..
Idk about him but to me this looks all waste and I think he is looking into a wrong direction.
What do you guys think about this behaviour of his?
He visited her family twice but only as a classmate. But she didnt tell them about their relationship. My brother told me that even her big brother asked her if she is interested in anyone then she should let him know but still she didn't..
She's a rule 4-type.