05-19-2018, 09:47 AM
(05-19-2018, 06:55 AM)findingme Wrote: I can absolutely relate to that frustration Matt. I, too, have had anger (and even momentary depression) over the norm of "do you think I'm good enough? If you do, then I can feel good" They are well-entrenched social habits of mine, and it's rather draining.
Maybe we'll get past this. ....And I'm not sure we have a choice of going around it or going through it. DMSI is going right into it, it seems.
I thought I could go around it some way. But I'm coming to the conclusion this is something I have to deal with and it's not going to be as easy as I had hoped it would be. So now I just have to take it as it comes and stop setting expectations for how I'm going to progress.
(05-19-2018, 07:32 AM)Zane Wrote: Matt have u tried giving 2 loops a try..? I did give one loop a try for a month and right now I am giving two a try to see how stuff goes
I haven't. Did Shannon say 2 loops was ok to experiment with now? I honestly don't think it's a quantity thing. At this point I don't see how 2 loops could benefit me other than taxing my brain more. The main thing is just following the instructions and getting whatever parts of myself aren't on board cooperating. I don't think brute forcing it with more loops will have an effect for me.
INFP
