04-10-2018, 02:33 AM
I've been facing a lot more resistance with 3.2A than 3.2B. Over the last week, one form of resistance I encountered the most was this: settling for somebody I wouldn't f*ck usually.
I went to KL, Malaysia for 5 days last week to see whether it is any easier than Singapore where I live in terms of pickup. In online game, I do get roughly 2x more matches I got in SG. The girls were also more open to meeting up. The higher quality ones were busier and couldn't meet in the same week, but were down to meet the following week, which I didn't have. I should have pipelined in advance. It is still a conservative country, but less conservative than SG. I got a feeling that the girls were a little more no-nonsense and real than the girls in SG. many of them would f*ck if they want to.
On Wednesday I went to a club. However I didn't know that in Malaysia Thursday is ladies night instead of Wednesday in SG. It was totally dead. No prospects from online game either, only one transexual. Well..... She looked hot so I went for it. She turned out to be from Egypt. Quite exotic, very slim and feminine with a pretty face. Not bad. I went to her hotel and did it.
On Friday I had two dates. One was in the afternoon with a cute but businesslike and bitchy girl. I felt quite high strung and found myself getting pulled into her pace. I noticed it and turned the topic around, but the vibe was never flirty. I made some polarizing comments playfully and she actually got offended. She shortly got a text from her school which meant she needed to leave. I'm sure it was legit. Asked her to see my place but no go.
The other date was slightly better and more eventful. Her profile on OKC was very sexually open but she actually wanted to see me first with a friend. I was annoyed. She wouldn't budge so in the end I agreed to see her friend first. By that time we were both annoyed and the mood wasn't good. She also turned out to be having withdrawal symptoms from her weed break. So the friend left and I just started walking us to the bar area. The mood was not bad when we started drinking. I was amusing myself and deep diving her, asking deep questions. She came to like me and was quite open about her sexuality. I kept asking her to sell me some weed because I never had it before. She was on break, but suddenly she made a phone call to her friend earlier to pick us up so we could all smoke weed together at her place. Well ok that's new to me. So we drove back to her place and smoked. I was friendly with her friend, she's actually hotter than the girl but I wasn't comfortable flirting with any of them in front of the other, so it was platonic all the way. I went home after stoning for a few hours. In the first place I knew if the friend was there I'd likely not get laid, but I chose the weed over her. I really wanted to try it and she wasn't hot anyway.
On Saturday I edged in the morning. Resistance. I also had two dates scheduled in the day. The whole day I was texting a girl who looks to be a model. She was hot, had abs and she was down to meet me. However she texted super slow and I felt very needy. In the meantime I met the first girl. Her OKC profile was also quite sexually open, but she actually turned out to be a virgin. Bummer. I was able to get her comfortable quickly while talking at Starbucks. I picked up cues that she was DTF though. I was contemplating whether to bang her or not, she wasn't hot and a little thick, usually I wouldn't go for her but I felt desperate. I invited her to my apartment without fuss. Escalated smoothly. She was a legit virgin. I tried to f*ck her a few times but she couldn't take it, too painful. I went in halfway one time and I came straight away because she was so damn tight. I gave up after that. Talked for a bit and booted her out.
The second date was basically a hookup. I asked her out by saying 'let's hang out for hugs' and she was down. She was a little thick in her photos but still not bad. She came straight to my place, however in person she was way bigger than her photos. I was hesitant but by this point I was desperate and wanted my Malaysian flag. Invited her up, escalated and banged her without further ado. To add insult to injury, her pussy had a deformity that was less than flattering and it smelled. I felt so much disgust at myself as I pumped away. I felt I was selling myself way short. I didn't do all the self improvement work I've been doing to bang a chick like this.
After she left I hit the clubs alone. The club was full and there were many hot girls. However as always I was quite stifled in the club. I found it very unnatural to hit on girls in that environment. I didn't interact with a single girl and left after two hours. Hit up the rest of my online prospects but they were all somewhere else. I felt needy as hell when I texted them.
I flew back the next day and banged my FWB. It was such a relief to bang a girl I was physically attracted to.
Overall KL was not too bad. I had 4 dates in 5 days having just arrived, and a few hotter options who were keen to meet up the following week. Much more than what I'd get in SG. Seems like I'd bang more girls there if I stay there long term. It's too bad I was having resistance when I was there.
I went to KL, Malaysia for 5 days last week to see whether it is any easier than Singapore where I live in terms of pickup. In online game, I do get roughly 2x more matches I got in SG. The girls were also more open to meeting up. The higher quality ones were busier and couldn't meet in the same week, but were down to meet the following week, which I didn't have. I should have pipelined in advance. It is still a conservative country, but less conservative than SG. I got a feeling that the girls were a little more no-nonsense and real than the girls in SG. many of them would f*ck if they want to.
On Wednesday I went to a club. However I didn't know that in Malaysia Thursday is ladies night instead of Wednesday in SG. It was totally dead. No prospects from online game either, only one transexual. Well..... She looked hot so I went for it. She turned out to be from Egypt. Quite exotic, very slim and feminine with a pretty face. Not bad. I went to her hotel and did it.
On Friday I had two dates. One was in the afternoon with a cute but businesslike and bitchy girl. I felt quite high strung and found myself getting pulled into her pace. I noticed it and turned the topic around, but the vibe was never flirty. I made some polarizing comments playfully and she actually got offended. She shortly got a text from her school which meant she needed to leave. I'm sure it was legit. Asked her to see my place but no go.
The other date was slightly better and more eventful. Her profile on OKC was very sexually open but she actually wanted to see me first with a friend. I was annoyed. She wouldn't budge so in the end I agreed to see her friend first. By that time we were both annoyed and the mood wasn't good. She also turned out to be having withdrawal symptoms from her weed break. So the friend left and I just started walking us to the bar area. The mood was not bad when we started drinking. I was amusing myself and deep diving her, asking deep questions. She came to like me and was quite open about her sexuality. I kept asking her to sell me some weed because I never had it before. She was on break, but suddenly she made a phone call to her friend earlier to pick us up so we could all smoke weed together at her place. Well ok that's new to me. So we drove back to her place and smoked. I was friendly with her friend, she's actually hotter than the girl but I wasn't comfortable flirting with any of them in front of the other, so it was platonic all the way. I went home after stoning for a few hours. In the first place I knew if the friend was there I'd likely not get laid, but I chose the weed over her. I really wanted to try it and she wasn't hot anyway.
On Saturday I edged in the morning. Resistance. I also had two dates scheduled in the day. The whole day I was texting a girl who looks to be a model. She was hot, had abs and she was down to meet me. However she texted super slow and I felt very needy. In the meantime I met the first girl. Her OKC profile was also quite sexually open, but she actually turned out to be a virgin. Bummer. I was able to get her comfortable quickly while talking at Starbucks. I picked up cues that she was DTF though. I was contemplating whether to bang her or not, she wasn't hot and a little thick, usually I wouldn't go for her but I felt desperate. I invited her to my apartment without fuss. Escalated smoothly. She was a legit virgin. I tried to f*ck her a few times but she couldn't take it, too painful. I went in halfway one time and I came straight away because she was so damn tight. I gave up after that. Talked for a bit and booted her out.
The second date was basically a hookup. I asked her out by saying 'let's hang out for hugs' and she was down. She was a little thick in her photos but still not bad. She came straight to my place, however in person she was way bigger than her photos. I was hesitant but by this point I was desperate and wanted my Malaysian flag. Invited her up, escalated and banged her without further ado. To add insult to injury, her pussy had a deformity that was less than flattering and it smelled. I felt so much disgust at myself as I pumped away. I felt I was selling myself way short. I didn't do all the self improvement work I've been doing to bang a chick like this.
After she left I hit the clubs alone. The club was full and there were many hot girls. However as always I was quite stifled in the club. I found it very unnatural to hit on girls in that environment. I didn't interact with a single girl and left after two hours. Hit up the rest of my online prospects but they were all somewhere else. I felt needy as hell when I texted them.
I flew back the next day and banged my FWB. It was such a relief to bang a girl I was physically attracted to.
Overall KL was not too bad. I had 4 dates in 5 days having just arrived, and a few hotter options who were keen to meet up the following week. Much more than what I'd get in SG. Seems like I'd bang more girls there if I stay there long term. It's too bad I was having resistance when I was there.
