04-09-2018, 08:59 AM
(04-08-2018, 08:42 AM)DarkPlouf Wrote:Quote:The third thing came in my mind which I was already aware of was the "I-don't-know-what-to-do"-factor. My bad social skills and lack of experience makes all the game very unpredictable. But I guess only experience and time will make this point better.
Quote: After few minutes standing there I noticed IOI's from her and then noticed that she came closer and closer in my direction....and then....simply bumped into me. Later she increased the distance again. This make me think that she wanted to approach me but had no clue what to do. So I guess the communication part between affected and user is the weakest point of the sub. The sub probably required to tell her more detailed what to do and how (and make the user able to respond), instead bumping into the user, lol.
Quote:Had some IOI's again, two women were talking to me and it seemed like they wanted to talk more but I didn't know what to say
Hi Mr Anderson. This seems like to be a real issue. Not knowing what to do and handle a social one-on-one meeting in a seductive manner.
I have had that issue my whole life too and at one point I realized that even if a miracle occurs and I get a clear chance with a girl, nothing would happen at the end of the day because of "not-knowing-what-to-do".
The other day I sort of got forced into a date and yup I noticed how much it is an hindrance. Not that I was expecting anything, anyway.
I've seen this issue on CatMan's journal too. That's tricky because that kinda put DMSI to waste.
How about finding a workaround ?
That IS an issue. I have tried to memorize things to be able to say something but when I enter the situation I somehow still "forget" what to say in most cases. And in the minority of cases where I know what to say I simply don't say anything, some sort of self sabotage I guess. So looks like the "amnesia" could be fear related but that doesn't change the fact that my social skills are still mess.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.