weird realisation.
Sometimes you think it is on.. and in fact it is not.
Sometimes you think that you screw up... and in fact the girl is still into you...
Screwed sex date girl texted me back today... (I guess this is good sign of interest)
Another woman that I went to lunch Monday with her where I thought she did enjoy my company and with who I even did make out with before leaving... I haven't heard back from her since then. I did even text her this afternoon today to ask her how she was... no answer...
iow, you just have zero control on how the girls feel torward you. The best you can do is to assume that they are attracted to you and let go all your expectations. Some women will want you. Some won't
I went out tonight... This is my new rule. I need to force myself to go out at least once per week. I think that this is very good rule to improve my life. Seeing people feels good.
I did 2 places. The first place was great. An excellent women/men ration. It felt like it was 50/50 but maybe there was slightly more men. But it didn't feel like it. I was seeing plenty of sexual women. Plenty of opportunities for adventure partners. I was very flirty with staff and with women around me. I felt like I was emanating confidence... I felt sexual and I felt that women was feeling it too.
No idea why I left. I guess that I could have stayed but I had a sudden urge to switch place. On my way out... I noticed at least 3 women turning their head to look at me.
In the second place, I went to the bar... I think that at that point I didn't want to meet women anymore because I did bad decisions. Lets draw a small diagram about the what was at the bar
W = Woman
M = Man
E = Empty
M W W E M M E E M M
Plenty of reasons went in my head to not sit beside the 2 women (too young, they are here to talk together, it will be obvious that I want to flirt with them, etc...)
So I took one of the 2 empty seats instead. I did ordered a drink... I tried to just relax... and listen to the music... but I ended up looking my phone...
Maybe 15 minutes after I did arrive. I was absorbed about what I was reading on my phone when a cute young girl interrupted me and did ask me if she could take the empty seat beside me.
I said sure ;-)
but I have no idea why... She saw the empty seat beside the 2 girls and finally decided to go there instead.
I was about to leave.. I finish my drink and left... When I look back... I think that I should have go talk to the new girl... A girl going alone in a bar at 11PM... This is very likely that she was looking to meet new people to not finish the evening alone like me...
In the moment, I was not clearly seeing that...
So bottom line.. Tonight was a mixed bag of good and bad...
Sometimes you think it is on.. and in fact it is not.
Sometimes you think that you screw up... and in fact the girl is still into you...
Screwed sex date girl texted me back today... (I guess this is good sign of interest)
Another woman that I went to lunch Monday with her where I thought she did enjoy my company and with who I even did make out with before leaving... I haven't heard back from her since then. I did even text her this afternoon today to ask her how she was... no answer...
iow, you just have zero control on how the girls feel torward you. The best you can do is to assume that they are attracted to you and let go all your expectations. Some women will want you. Some won't
I went out tonight... This is my new rule. I need to force myself to go out at least once per week. I think that this is very good rule to improve my life. Seeing people feels good.
I did 2 places. The first place was great. An excellent women/men ration. It felt like it was 50/50 but maybe there was slightly more men. But it didn't feel like it. I was seeing plenty of sexual women. Plenty of opportunities for adventure partners. I was very flirty with staff and with women around me. I felt like I was emanating confidence... I felt sexual and I felt that women was feeling it too.
No idea why I left. I guess that I could have stayed but I had a sudden urge to switch place. On my way out... I noticed at least 3 women turning their head to look at me.
In the second place, I went to the bar... I think that at that point I didn't want to meet women anymore because I did bad decisions. Lets draw a small diagram about the what was at the bar
W = Woman
M = Man
E = Empty
M W W E M M E E M M
Plenty of reasons went in my head to not sit beside the 2 women (too young, they are here to talk together, it will be obvious that I want to flirt with them, etc...)
So I took one of the 2 empty seats instead. I did ordered a drink... I tried to just relax... and listen to the music... but I ended up looking my phone...
Maybe 15 minutes after I did arrive. I was absorbed about what I was reading on my phone when a cute young girl interrupted me and did ask me if she could take the empty seat beside me.
I said sure ;-)
but I have no idea why... She saw the empty seat beside the 2 girls and finally decided to go there instead.
I was about to leave.. I finish my drink and left... When I look back... I think that I should have go talk to the new girl... A girl going alone in a bar at 11PM... This is very likely that she was looking to meet new people to not finish the evening alone like me...
In the moment, I was not clearly seeing that...
So bottom line.. Tonight was a mixed bag of good and bad...
