(03-28-2018, 01:56 AM)Raikahoken Wrote: Hi Ray, I feel for what you're going through. Everybody is different and what works for me may not work for you, but I'll tell you how I got through it. For me, it's about reinvesting in myself and redefining what I want. It's so much easier to get over someone if you're more excited about your life and what will happen next in your life than being with her. Hope this helps.
Thanks bro I appreciate that. I agree with you. That's actually the only thing keeping me hopeful, the fact that everything in my life is going SO WELL right now, new apartment I just bought, new car, body is where I want it to be finally in my life. And my confidence / inner game is at an all time high.
You're totally right! I still miss her and want her but I do realize it's not the end of the world and i'm in a pretty fortunate and good position in life overall.
For me, the gym is something that really helps me, it makes me feel good when i'm there, get my mind off it and also remind me that i'm an attractive person.
tbh I had felt way better for the last 2 weeks. 3.2a really brought out the pain though, that's good though because it means i'm executing I believe. I feel allot better today although i still miss her.
yesterday I made the decision that i want to become a tattoo artist (traditional and western japanese)
I spent 4 hours drawing and it really helped me get my mind off it too.
i'm not a good artist but im going to take lessons and practise all the time and get to where I need to be in a few years and become an apprentice.
I banged a smoking hot escort today. I found out that I made her cum, i never knew if I was able to make women cum, because I didn't know what it was supposed to be like or feel like when they cum. But somehow the discussion with us got to that and she said "You made me cum earlier that's why it was wet"
Lol it was interesting because I never knew I could, I didn't realize I am capable of that.
Also I found out that breathing out and in through MOUTH is the best way to get that sensitivity in your penis gone, so you don't cum prematurely. (I taught myself this she didn't teach me)
I went from cumming instantly few years ago to lasting as long as I want. I trained myself using breathing techniques and law of attraction. And DMSI I think helped too.
