03-27-2018, 07:56 AM
(03-27-2018, 12:38 AM)Light Wrote: I feel you man. In your case there is not much you can do except giving it time. Time heals most!
In your case,i would travel somewhere for a change. If I cant, I try to keep company of other people and date your other girl.
The idea that she is the most perfect person for you and there is no other one like her is your own projection on her. There is never justone. Never never never
I was in the same situation three or four times before I realized it is an illusion to think there is only the one. Be more tolerant:-) there are a few billion girls.
Mind you Dmsi might be exposing you to these emotions by way of healing. There is no way to get over trauma but by facing it
THanks man I appreciate that. I wish I could travel but im not allowed out of BC for a year and half. Plus I go to jail eveyr weekend.
I neve said she's the perfect one for me. But I still really liked her individual personality and looks.
She is the hottest women I've ever met but I know she's not perfect for me. In fact there are allot of flaws in her personality and incompatibility issues.
But that doesn't change the fact that I really valued her as a person and now I am unable to see her maybe forever.
But i get what ur saying. Time will heal, it's healed me in the past of pain much greater then this.
Still sad though. I care for her.
