Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[JackOfHearts]

Seeing how attraction affects girls lately much more than I have in my entire life in just a month I can say that attraction isn't you think it is especially when girls are concerned.

I haven't use the last DMSI version though but I have seen literally at least 40 women if not more showing very obvious interest repeatedly, even my blind male friends noticed it. Out of all that attraction and some that I even spoke to and ask for numbers none actually did anything about it some even batlantly rejected me after I showed interest in them some ran away, some couldn't even talk (shaking heavily)

Attraction isn't the portal to easy sex on a daily basis if you don't act on it and even if you act on it actually, at least in my experience from where I live. It seems to me that you have to be very confident and you have to keep acting until she is completely safe to say yes to your request, not just once but multiples times until she knows for sure everything is completely safe. And even if it is completely safe and you spend 7 days with a girl some might not even admit that they are attracted or interested in you. It seems for most girls to say yes to an invitation is as hard as for a guy to ask a girl out. Most guy need to be completely drunk to ask a girl out or talk to one, it seems for girls to answer to a guy request positively is as hard for them.

I'm actually starting to doubt more profoundly that it is possible to make the girl act on their sexual interest unless that girl is confident to begin with and even if she is confident it might not be enough.

I'm experiencing very similar.

The mass attraction is off the roof. So many stares in a day. Lots of them even have this orgasmic look on their face. It's clear they are turned on by my aura/energy.

In interactions, some don't go anywhere. I approached this hottie who looked at me twice. She has a bf so didn't wanna take our interaction further, which is fair enough lol.

But there were two other girls who I'm pretty sure were very single, and were interested in the moment, and they also suggested themselves we should hang out again. Yet afterwards they'd flake and I never saw them again.

I kinda agree the attraction needs something more for sex to happen. Perhaps more comfort or something. Or I gotta be more persistent on my part.

Or you could just be seeing the effects of an unbalanced, unfinished DMSI and assuming that is all there is... I know you guys are dying to believe that man must initiate, but really, that's not true. And when we get finished, you will see for yourself.

Must I don't think so but the amount of girls able to initiate a conversation on their own is very low, sex even lower. So I would say it's out of character or out of the norm for a girl to initiate. I don't think it's impossible for them to initiate as I have seen it.

Actually I may not have explained myself properly above.

Girls usually don't initiate directly and straightforwardly, when they do initiate a conversation like most guys they will pretend they aren't doing it because they want you. I have heard the excuse that they know me from somewhere at least 5 times this month when they initiated conversations with me.
I think it's easier for them to initiate as long as you don't reciprocate the interest in them but once you do it seems harder for them.
So if I look at it closely what I have seen from their perspective isn't really them initiating but having the intent to make me initiate so I show my interest and when I show interest they go crazy and run
To their perspective they can pretend they weren't interested at all, they thought they knew me, it was mistake I guess complete denial.

A truly initiating girl would say something like " You look sexy, let's go grab a beer and talk or let's go somewhere to f**k"

I'm going to try that next time on them, maybe the rate would higher than just talking to them

interesting, I have the same incidents when i went out.

One night i was in the club close to a bar with my buddy. This girl shows up alone at the bar orders two shtos and taps on my shoudler and gave one to me.

I looked at her and she hands it to me and i drank it and she just LEAVES, like nothing happened.
I of course went to start a conversation and she just keeps on avioding me sorta...
like she would answer my question while heading to her friends etc... then head to dancefloor.

This other night, girl opens me asking what my name was. Funny shit her friend just leaves her alone with me and im like wow perfect?
I started moving things forward, talk to her, take her hand and dance.
After like 3 minutes she says: i gotta go see my friend.
Im thinking..... wtf =_= ?

Yah and there were a bunch of chicks where i initiated and they were really affected by me, like bluhsing entire time im talking to me etc... but they never really respond after for day 2s..

U guys have any idea for this?

I had those incidents since doing SM3, I'm on WM2 right now, I didn't noticed that pattern with SM3 because there weren't as much girl interested. It probably happened with AM6 and DMSI too but I don't remember.

I have some theories about why it happens:
-I didn't integrate the sub completely, something is off still.
-The girls just want to see if we are attracted to them, once they know they aren't interested anymore, it's an ego thing.
-They are too fearful to go further once they know there is a mutual connexion or they think they aren't good enough for us.
-Maybe the sub only makes some superficial change and when we talk to the girls they notice the person isn't as attractive/masculine and great as they thought he was. A bit like if I was wearing makeup to hide my face behind a mask.