Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Shannon]

Or you could just be seeing the effects of an unbalanced, unfinished DMSI and assuming that is all there is... I know you guys are dying to believe that man must initiate, but really, that's not true. And when we get finished, you will see for yourself.

Problem is almost every resource out there has brainwashed us into thinking that men must take the lead. Men must lead the women to sex. Men must seduce. Men must take initiative and approach. No doubt most women have been brainwashed into believing this also and is why most take absolutely no action.

But when you say initiate do you mean initiate an interaction or initiate seduction? In that sense is actually opening an interaction with a random girl against the goals of the program?

Anyone who wishes to make progress or change must swim against the social status quo. The herd is safe not only because of numbers, but because it tends to perpetuate the status quo. If the status quo isn't working...

Men and women have indeed been brainwashed into believing, for a long time now, that men must lead a women must wait for the man to approach. That can be overcome. I'm just trying to find the way to overcome it that doesn't rip apart the fabric of society. Because anytime you change the status quo, there is upheaval, and the consequences of making DMSI work as designed may be difficult to achieve without causing problems in unintended directions.

And DMSI doesn't stop you from initiating. It is designed to make you so sexy that they initiate instead. There is nothing that says you are not free to initiate still, whenever and with whomever you like.