03-25-2018, 10:26 PM
(03-25-2018, 10:08 PM)josh84 Wrote: It will be good if they are all chasing us at the end make life a lot easier on guys that have trouble approaching, even trying to just talk to women as friends they jump to the conclusion your hitting on them because someone says hi to them.
The ones i actually am interested in are the ones i havent spoken to yet but now my confidence is starting to improve around people i know if it continues improving it might give me that boost to go up to other women and talk to them.
Maybe soon the other parts will start to kick in too.
I personally grew a lot throughout my time of approaching girls. You know why it's beneficial to do so? You conquer your fears. My anxiety plummeted from 100 to 0. Lol okay maybe it was an exaggeration, but I did have a stuttering problem growing up, and now I'm just calm in front of women. When I did job interviews, it's nothing in comparison! I did a group interview once, and we were asked how many of us were nervous right then, and 95% of the room put their hands up. I was totally calm, cause I've been through much scarier (approaching girls). As you can see, I was a nervous wreck with anxiety issues, and now I am fearless. Another benefit is that if you're able to approach a girl calmly, it just shows you are entitled to her. It really trains your confidence. The inner effects are amazing.
Yeah I know we talked about how DMSI's goal is for them to approach us. And yes, it's gonna happen to us a lot in the future. But it doesn't mean we can't approach when we want. When I approach, it's not coming from a place of desperation. I rarely do any approaches when I'm out. I do it only when I feel inspired to, because I'm just turned on by her beauty. At the same time, I'm open to getting approached too when it happens. They don't conflict each other.
