03-21-2018, 10:20 AM
(03-18-2018, 06:43 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Went to a bar last night with some co-workers.
The one guy brought a female who was definitely f*ckable.
The guy bought me a drink and the girl talked with me briefly but not much.
Later in the night she said to me "You're quiet" and I replied "I am." in the affirmative.
Then she was like "are you having a good time?" and I'm like "Yeah, having fun, you?" she was like "I'm having a blast!"
That was pretty much the extent of our convo. There were several other guys there who all wanted this girl, and me being "different" and "not chasing" did f*ck all.
I'm pretty sure one of the guys hooked up with her.
My biggest issue was finding a way to isolate. Bars suck for that, I really don't get it.
Also, since there were so many guys wanting her, it seemed like a waste of energy to compete with them.
EDIT: Oh yeah, at one point in our convo she was like "I like lesbian porn" and then I went into that. I asked her what her favorite scene was and favorite pornstars, to which she went 180 and was all like "huhhhh, whaaaa?" lol. Whatever.
When you talked briefly that was a sign of interest and she came back the second time to ask if you were having fun. Another sign of interest.
The fact that she keeps coming back says she wants you not the other guys so you are not in competition with anyone, you had the girl and she even talked about porn to get your mind to start thinking dirty about her.
And you isolate by being direct say something along the line "hey too much noise here I can barely hear you, let's move somewhere else" and you lead her to wherever you like and you bring the porn conversation back haha. Notice I didn't ask her I just assumed she will comply, trust me she will follow you, knowing that she likes you. You need confidence to pull this thou
