I kinda lost track of which day I am in the DMSI 3.2 B cycle. I guess that I will flip to A at the beginning of next month.
I made an important realization Friday. I do use dating app on mobile. More actively in the last week due to the increasing urge to mate that is building inside me.
Girl that I find attractive, I most of the time take the time to read their description and I find that a lot of women in my age range are single moms or girls that say that they are searching for serious relationship. No hook ups, no one night stands.
If you ask my opinion, I don't consider myself in the hook-up/one night category as I'm not sending dick pics and I insist to at least meet the girl once before deciding if I want to have sex with her.
I'm totally honest with them. I tell them that everything is on the table including LTR but only if I meet the right one so committing to a LTR right out of the bat isn't something that I'm looking for.
I just want to meet a nice girl to take a drink and discover the nice person behind the cute pics that I saw.
Well by saying just that, a lot of the time, it ends up being a huge waste of time since as soon as I say outloud my mind about what I'm looking those crazy girls just stop talking to me.
So I decided to go out of my comfort zone and flip the table. I wrote exactly in my description what I am looking for. Basically I want the girls who see my profile to qualify themselves. I did realize that most of my previous girlfriends didn't have a high sex drive. I just had a flash friday. I want a very horny girl. I want to qualify girls that I hang out with to have a strong libido. Ideally, that she has about the same libido than I do but why not trying nymphomaniacs to see how it is to be with a girl that always want to do it...
It is not word for word since it is written in french in my profile but in essence:
I'm looking to meet an attractive woman to meet her somewhere where we can share a drink, discover each other and share good moments if there are sparks between us.
I have nothing against commitment but the ONLY way that I can imagine myself to commit to a woman is IF and ONLY if the relation starts with a highly addictive physical passion. IMO, it is ridiculous to filter out guys based on if they are looking a monogamous commitment or not before meeting. It is like signing a blank check without trying out the merchandise first. I have many interests but lets say that good sex is pretty much on top of the list. If it is not important for you, sorry we aren't made to be together...
I just wrote that and publish it and I started to doubt about it. I thought that it was maybe too direct. Maybe I would offend some readers. I was already thinking about toning it down by talking about adventure and spontaneity instead but I said screw that. Lets try it out few days. It didn't take long that I got few very interesting inquiries. This did made me realize this. What I wrote was very polarizing. Yes it will offend the low libido single mothers that are looking for providers but the high libido girls that I am looking for are going to love what they read. and it did turn out exactly like that to my surprise.
At least 2 nice girls contacted me to tell me that they were thinking exactly like me but were too shy to write it. and we started to have sexual loaded discussion straight from the start...
So that was the big takeaway. I want to hang out with high libido girls, you need to qualify them for that(or whatever your thing is). No idea why I didn't never done it before... Yes I have standards for women but somehow high libido criteria wasn't in the qualification tests... big mistake... it is in now...
and it is a big time saver. I won't waste time chatting with girls that aren't interested in what I'm looking for...
I kinda feel silly to state the obvious but that was my ah ah moment. Like if I was hypnotized with a blank spot regarding sex and I got clarity about what I want exactly...
I made an important realization Friday. I do use dating app on mobile. More actively in the last week due to the increasing urge to mate that is building inside me.
Girl that I find attractive, I most of the time take the time to read their description and I find that a lot of women in my age range are single moms or girls that say that they are searching for serious relationship. No hook ups, no one night stands.
If you ask my opinion, I don't consider myself in the hook-up/one night category as I'm not sending dick pics and I insist to at least meet the girl once before deciding if I want to have sex with her.
I'm totally honest with them. I tell them that everything is on the table including LTR but only if I meet the right one so committing to a LTR right out of the bat isn't something that I'm looking for.
I just want to meet a nice girl to take a drink and discover the nice person behind the cute pics that I saw.
Well by saying just that, a lot of the time, it ends up being a huge waste of time since as soon as I say outloud my mind about what I'm looking those crazy girls just stop talking to me.
So I decided to go out of my comfort zone and flip the table. I wrote exactly in my description what I am looking for. Basically I want the girls who see my profile to qualify themselves. I did realize that most of my previous girlfriends didn't have a high sex drive. I just had a flash friday. I want a very horny girl. I want to qualify girls that I hang out with to have a strong libido. Ideally, that she has about the same libido than I do but why not trying nymphomaniacs to see how it is to be with a girl that always want to do it...
It is not word for word since it is written in french in my profile but in essence:
I'm looking to meet an attractive woman to meet her somewhere where we can share a drink, discover each other and share good moments if there are sparks between us.
I have nothing against commitment but the ONLY way that I can imagine myself to commit to a woman is IF and ONLY if the relation starts with a highly addictive physical passion. IMO, it is ridiculous to filter out guys based on if they are looking a monogamous commitment or not before meeting. It is like signing a blank check without trying out the merchandise first. I have many interests but lets say that good sex is pretty much on top of the list. If it is not important for you, sorry we aren't made to be together...
I just wrote that and publish it and I started to doubt about it. I thought that it was maybe too direct. Maybe I would offend some readers. I was already thinking about toning it down by talking about adventure and spontaneity instead but I said screw that. Lets try it out few days. It didn't take long that I got few very interesting inquiries. This did made me realize this. What I wrote was very polarizing. Yes it will offend the low libido single mothers that are looking for providers but the high libido girls that I am looking for are going to love what they read. and it did turn out exactly like that to my surprise.
At least 2 nice girls contacted me to tell me that they were thinking exactly like me but were too shy to write it. and we started to have sexual loaded discussion straight from the start...
So that was the big takeaway. I want to hang out with high libido girls, you need to qualify them for that(or whatever your thing is). No idea why I didn't never done it before... Yes I have standards for women but somehow high libido criteria wasn't in the qualification tests... big mistake... it is in now...
and it is a big time saver. I won't waste time chatting with girls that aren't interested in what I'm looking for...
I kinda feel silly to state the obvious but that was my ah ah moment. Like if I was hypnotized with a blank spot regarding sex and I got clarity about what I want exactly...
