Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Determined]

When it comes to men talking about how many women they have shagged take it with a pinch of salt . All men love to brag about their exploits to impress other men. I know one guy who claimed to have three somes every weekend. It turned out he had setup his own escort agency

There's nothing wrong with getting laid. In fact chasing skirt in your 20's is optimal.

I have a friend whose slept with 1000+ women and he says it's only through this process do you refine what you want in a woman. He likened sexual experience to primary school - high school - college education. It's pretty limiting for a man to be in his 30's and have only a primary school level of understanding with women due to his own inexperience.

It's also pretty limiting for a guy to be making the same mistakes over and over again without learning rapidly. The faster a man goes through this process, the better able they are to achieve fulfillment and satisfaction with women.

can you please get your friend to contact shannon and maybe shannon could get some pointers as to how these guys are thinking?
I had a similar friend and before I could get some "education" as you call it, he moved away.

Lol, if you haven't noticed by now, I'm one of the most skeptical members here.

I'm always seeking evidence, always calling people out on their fallacious assumptions. I wouldn't be concluding that the guy is the real deal if I didn't have ocular proof. Women melt around him because he knows what he's doing.

It's also an over generalisation on your part to say "all men love to brag about their exploits". Only men who seek validation from others brag about their accomplishments. Be careful you're not projecting your own view and universalising it to everyone else.

Determined,
you summed it up pretty well and I agree 100%. I have personally seen such incidents with my friend, like one where a girl at a gas station took his hand and did not let him go after a brief 5 -10 second conversation when we merely stopped to get gas.
there are others like this where the girls overtly hit on him that I have witnessed during the brief period before he moved away. at least, now I know such men exist and such an energy is possible.

although we have wonderful members in this forum, I am not sure that it would be the best place to listen to theories about women.

Agreed.

Part of the problem (and Shannon's identified this) is that many people refuse to believe that this type of lifestyle is possible.

There are some guys here, who despite being virgins, feel compelled to offer dating advice to other men (which is just ludicrous).